Well I guess I have no one else to turn to right now because everything is still so fresh. When we decided to move back in together after a 2 month seperation he immediately talked of family and happiness. I did not feel comfortable with having more kids because of where we both are right now. We made love a few time which only caused arguments because I wanted to use something and he went into big rages. I finally let him have his way and now I am pregnant. He told me never to talk to him again and that he didn't even want to see the baby. He wants me to get an abortion. I guess I am on my own and I feel ok. I let my son go with his family for the day. When I went to the mountains to find them they were nowhere near where they said they would be. I have never cried so hard in my life. I promised my son I would come and get him so he could sleep at home with me and they knew. I spent over two hours looking for him until it was dark. I don't even know when they will be here. My H. said he will go find him. He's mad at me for being upset about it. I am suppose to leave out of town for the next few days and he is suppose to come with me. How do I find him?

Gracious Rainefall,<P>Am I understanding correctly that your son is with your H's family? Is there anyone you can contact that might know where they are?<P>Can you contact authorities and ask for help locating them?<P>Don't listen to H...alcoholics will say anything to create co-dependancy with you...you have to follow your own conscience...<P>Have you sought help from al-anon or another support group?<BR>Do you have family or friends in the area to turn to?<P>Seek and ask for help, Rainefall...<P>JustPlainCali <BR>(I used to be Diva.)

Ok-so my H. calls me and tells me not to worry that my son will be home sometime today. He knew that they were going to do this. Why did they do this?? I will never again trust them to take him away from home. Cali- I am going to go to al-anon this week. I will keep you and your family in my prayers. thank you for your advice.