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#926186 07/05/01 01:19 PM
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Tomorrow is my H's 30th Birthday.<P>Should I get him a card like I always do....or should I just ignore it? It's likely that we won't even see him tomorrow since he plans to come and see the girls today...so I would have to give it to him today anyway.<P>I want to get him a card.....but everyone else is telling me to take the tough love approach and let him know that I don't need him.....not to even acknowledge that tomorrow is his birthday.<BR>Any opinions on this?

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Miss Priss~<P>Would your hubby consider this a LB to him? If you don't get him a card, maybe his daughters!!!<P>Since your are not living together right now, make all the love deposits you can.<P>Judy

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I would give him the card.

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Definitely get him a card and take the opportunity to write him a note to the effect that you still love him, you're here for him, and you still want to work things out - that you will not abandon him.<P>WAT


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