"Some things can only be done a certain way.....and this is one of them. If you ever change your mind and decide there are some things you're willing to keep secret, let me know."<BR>You see I tried to be "just friends" as he was willing to also at first and then when I told him "oh I forgot to tell you that if I am questioned by my spouse if I still speak to you I will not lie and I will pay for the consequences"<BR>well from seeing his response if you will notice it was ok to be friends as long as he doesnt have to pay for the consequences and besides what kind of friendship is this that "can only be done certain ways"?<BR>I have been lurking here for a couple of months and while I am a WS as you can tell I am moving out of the fog and after this ridiculous note I think I will stay out of it.<BR>KitKat<P>I posted this under someone elses post but I wanted others opinion on this email

I think your reaction is appropriate. He only wants to continue your “friendship” if it can be kept secret. This must hurt but it is reality. Remember.. No Contact. It’s that only thing that works.<P>My bet is that your husband would be devastated to know that there has been contact at all.<P>Z<BR><P>------------------<BR>He loves not who does not show love.<BR>----William Shakespeare