Well...things were going better...and of course the stupid roller coaster has to kick it on again..<BR>My brother made it out like he was going to help my H get a car since he needs one pretty badly...especially if he wants to come back here...we are both working over lapping shifts as of now...<BR>Well he got both our hopes up then dashed them...and is now in a "I dont' know" stage about helping getting the car...<BR>My H is taking it really badly and it has really thrown him back about coming back here...also turns out the OW talked to him the other night about someone they both knew...he didn't sound too happy saying her name though...so I highly doubt anything happened between them...<BR>Well after my brother acting like an a** all day to us he decides to tell me he isn't ready to come home yet...<BR>For the last 2 nights he's made excuses why he wasn't coming to the house to stay?..then tonight he just throws it in in the middle of a conversation taht he isn't ready to come home yet...but if he gets his own car he'll be around more...since he is getting tired of living at his parents' house?....after all the talking about the future and all he now does this???....setback I know...<BR>I just can't tell what's going on...really wish I could...really wish my brother hadn't done that too...it didn't help at all....he's done this sort of stuff before but that was before the A happened...I guess my brother was thinking my H would come back....<BR>Ha...is all I can say to that one right now....feeling pretty let down that things were going well and now seem to be set back a few weeks...and our anniversary is this month too....am really wondering what the hell will be going on by then?...Giving up is sounding pretty good right now....

MacG:<P>Go outside on a foggy day. Grab a handful of fog. Divine what it is thinking. Get the picture? Trying to figure out a WS in the fog is an exercise in futility and will only lead to brain and heart damage.<P>You could go to Roswell, NM and ask to be beamed up to the Mothership for a crash course in Fog 101.<P>Just stick to plan A. Observe what is most effective and pour it on. But don't expect any of your WS's behavior to fit any kind of rational pattern.<P>Godspeed,<BR>STL

Ms. Mac - listen to STL. The only thing he didn't say was that he's been to the Mothership - he knows what he's talking about. But he reached escape velocity and the moose brain worms burned up in the re-entry.<P>Seriously, this is a big benefit of this forum. Former WSs like STL are willing to bare their souls. I have learned far more from folks like him than from anything else here.<P>WAT