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I'd just like your thoughts on what it felt like, going through D-Day (by the way, is D-Day when the BS finds out about the A? I think it is...), but more importantly, what it was like to live between the Plan A'ing BS and the OM both trying to be there for you. What in the end made you go one way or the other?<P>Thanks,<BR>-zen
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My wife thought about suicide on D-day but decided against it the next day because of what her mother and father would think. She cried her eyes out for two months. But after that decided what she did wasn't all that bad. She risked divorce, pregancy, not getting out of China and AIDS for two 10 minute sesions of pleasure with a guy she did not love. She was just feeling "horny."
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Gutted, betrayed, disbelief every emotion you could imagine went through my head, as though I was on the outside looking in after all this couldn't be happening to me could it!@@# We had the perfect marriage didn't we????? I never even guessed it was going on right under my nose (OW was a so called family friend, little did I know that she had her sights set on being my replacement! I went totally haywire for about 12 hours drunk a whole 3ltrs of wine smoked endless cigatettes then collapsed in a heap on the floor!<BR>Cya<BR>Cally
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