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#927180 07/08/01 01:37 AM
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In April I found a cell phone bill that fell out of my husbands portfolio when I lifted it to dust our dresser which had been mailed to my husband care of a post office box in another city. This was before I found out he had had an affair with woman #2. The calls on the bill were to a woman my husband swears is just a freind, woman #1. The calls were made every other morning to woman #1's voice mail, home, and place of employment. I later found out the other numbers on the bill belonged to the woman he had had an affair with. For starters I never knew he had a cell phone or a seperate amiling address via a post office box, he kept it secret. I was incedibly concerned that my husband may be having an affair with woman #1 so I called sprint for copies of the March bill. My husband insisted he hadn't called her since february, the calls were work related and such. I had to know if he was telling me the truth and the march bill would help do that, verify his story he hadn't had contact with her since February or he did and lied again. This was still a bit before I learned he had an affair with woman #2. When I hadn't received the duplicate Spring bill for March by May 30, 2001 my husband said he called Sprint himself to find out where it was and he was told it had been sent to another city with the same name as ours in a different state. I called sprint, their records showed it had been sent to my city not the other one my husband claimed they had. 2 Weeks ago I again contacted Sprint requesting copies of the March bill which I should have received 5 days agao. Am I nuts or is he intercepting the mail snatching the invoices out before I can get the mail? He's done that before to me, and if he is intercepting them I can only believe the worst. I havn't confronted him about not receiving the second request for March's phone bill, I did call this womans voice mail, home ansering machine and plain pager leaving messages for her to please call me, I was polite explaining there were some questions I had that maybe she could help me answer. The woman never called me and my husband says she has called his voice mail reporting she was receiving hang up calls and was it me making them. I guess if there is no other relationship other than freindship why wouldn't she call me back? Do I confront my husband again about the missing March invoices Sprint shows to have sent me twice now? Di I call this other woman at her place of work and ask the questions?

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CloudSeeker,<P>Get yourself a mailbox. Then call sprint and change the billing address to that mailbox. Then your H will not be able to intercept the mail. Once you have the invoices you want, change the mailing address back to the original address. <P>At this point you cannot really accuse him of intercepting the mail although it does sound suspicious. <P>It also seems that the OW is not willing to talk to you. So I would not pursue that any further at this point. <P>Z<BR>


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