Well H and my son just left. H moved again this weekend to a friend of his that has a duplex. His friend is never home and he will have alot of privacy there. H came down today to spend the day with our son and they were our for awhile this am. When they came back H asked me if I minded him moving his dresser and a lamp and chair. I could not look at him when I answered him all I did was nod my head for him to go ahead and move it. What more could I say. H knows how I feel about him. After they left I went down to our bedroom and I just fell on the bed bawling like a baby. I just dont think that he is going to come back to live with us. I figured a few weeks and he may see the light but I guess not. Anyone else that this has happened to or similiar situation? Please I need advise this really hurts. He has been gone 7 weeks but lived close to our home up until this weekend.

Oh my dear,<P>I remember this time and yes, I cried also. No one is going to tell you not to cry, just that it will eventually pass and you will be able to continue. <P>So today you are in mourning. That is ok. There is not anything that will bring you comfort so we will be here to hear your sobs and tears, anger and fears. <P>Don't be afraid to let your H see you hurting this way. He needs to know what he is doing. He needs to live with his actions and yes they are hurting you now. How long he will continue out there, no one can predict. Don't give up yet. Just wait and watch. <P>L.<BR>

Thanks Orchid for your support. I just feel like today was the start of the closing of our marriage. When he left 2 years ago he was only gone 2 weeks he just took his clothes. I thought that there was still hope but today I feel alone and that this is just another chapter on the closing of my 14 year marriage.

<BR>Similar thing happened to me seven weeks ago.My husband just decided he didn't want to be married anymore and left the next day.He didn't just move out,he left the country and told me never to contact him! I was pregnant at the time and lost my baby.<BR>It hurts like hell and I wanted to take my own life. I found this site and recieved some wonderful advice.<P>I am slowly getting stronger but find his absense very hard to deal with.I just try to keep real busy and work on getting myself strong again so I can deal with this situation which ever way it goes.Concentrate on yourself as you are a very important person.<P>Reach out to the people here,it really does help.<P>You are in my thoughts and prayers.<P>SAD (no longer alone)