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thisis n for noone but me, ok H is not where he is suposed to be for the first time in 3 months, I am starting to get shakes andmy head is running rampat. I know he is not doing it agin I know he is not doing it again I KNOW HE IS NOT DOING IT AGAIN. It is just so not like him to do this and not be where i can reach him. I am calling like every 5 minutes and it is driving me nuts i have to ,eave the house so i do not sit here and call. THIS iS the hard part dammit that freaking truat part I WANT MY LIFE BACK PLEASE. PLEASE PLEASE<BR>Maine<P>------------------<BR>IN the words of BOB the BUILDER!!" WE can fix it, yes we can!!!"
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{{{{{{{{Maine}}}}}}}}}<P><BR>Oh do I ever know how you feel. Then when you ask him about it you will probably feel guilty about it. Like you are bugging him. I know that this is so hard for you with your H being away for so long.<P>Get busy with something, anything right now.<P>Z<P>------------------<BR>He loves not who does not show love.<BR>----William Shakespeare
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(((((((( mainemade ))))))))<P>You're right.. calm down. Take a few deep breaths, close your eyes, think of something soothing (like a brook rippling over some stones.. hear the sounds, breathe in the air). Okay. You're doing great.<P>I felt in the same boat last night. I had tried to call H, and he 'left his cell phone in the car'. It turns out that he and his boss had gone to a nearby bar instead of staying at his boss's house. Whatever.<P>This is only one error. Things have been going pretty good for a bit now, right? Think about that. Also think about (and practice aloud if you can), what you are going to say to him when you do see him or talk to him. Work on taking the anger tones out of your voice, show sincere concern instead (because that's really what it is, right?).<P>Take care,<BR>Karen<BR>
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Maine,<P>You and I both have the shakes right now. Ok from one shakey person to another, let's breathe...... in, out, in, punch, out ah.... (oops forget the punch that's an LB, been doing that today, why? because I am having a bad day also). <P>Be here with us. We will pull through this together. You will find your H. Could be his phone is dead? Does he have a pager? Where did he say he was going? Got a lot of MBers out there what should we be looking for? <P>Please don't give us a description like WAT did (the no undie thing - too hard to spot) LOL..... trying to get a smile out of you even if it is just a 1/2 a smile.<P>L.<BR>
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Maine ... awwwe sweetie,<P>You're gonna be okay. Just know everyone experiences this, it's normal for what you've been thru. I am sure J is not doing anything he shouldn't be. Get out your books and read them, before you know he'll be ringing that phone of yours.<P>And when he does call, be sweet, be a Plan A kinda girlie that I know you can be. Tell him that you were a bit concerned, and ask him if next time he can let you know where he is so you don't worry.<P>Post back and let us know.<P>Love you,<BR>Jo
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Jo as ususal you are right, ( I MISS YOU ) He was 2 hours late in calling, but he was trying toset up a surprise for me. MY don't i feellike an A**. This is the hardest thing for me to do while he is gone.. That trust thing really rocks you to your core big time. HE is a good man and i know he willnot hurt me again. UGHHHH Growing up SUCKS!!<BR>Maine<P>------------------<BR>IN the words of BOB the BUILDER!!" WE can fix it, yes we can!!!"
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