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Why am I even here? Why do things seem to happen and leave so much destruction behind? I can't do this anymore, my husband, my family and my son of 5 years with his terminal heart condition. I'm 41, I swore I would never marry. to much pain, to much. I need to let go. I need a corner to crawl in, I worked so hard to be a good parent, a good wife, I just can't meet his or their exspectations. I am stuck in a hole,
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cloudseeker,<P>{{{{{{{{{{hug}}}}}}}}}}<P>I am sorry for your pain. Sometimes the only way to get over it is right through the middle of it. And so we get stuck in the quagmire. When that happens it’s not a bad thing to wallow there for a while. This seems to actually hasten the healing process.<P>Are there any resources you can draw on? Perhaps a family member or friend who can lighten your load some? <P>I wish there as something tangible I could do to help you. But I can extend a caring hand and a prayer. <P>Z<P>------------------<BR>He loves not who does not show love.<BR>----William Shakespeare
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cloudseeker,<P>{{{{{{{{{{hug}}}}}}}}}}<P>I am sorry for your pain. Sometimes the only way to get over it is right through the middle of it. And so we get stuck in the quagmire. When that happens it’s not a bad thing to wallow there for a while. This seems to actually hasten the healing process.<P>Are there any resources you can draw on? Perhaps a family member or friend who can lighten your load some? <P>I wish there as something tangible I could do to help you. But I can extend a caring hand and a prayer. <P>Z<P>------------------<BR>He loves not who does not show love.<BR>----William Shakespeare
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cloudseeker,<P>{{{{{{{{{{hug}}}}}}}}}}<P>I am sorry for your pain. Sometimes the only way to get over it is right through the middle of it. And so we get stuck in the quagmire. When that happens it’s not a bad thing to wallow there for a while. This seems to actually hasten the healing process.<P>Are there any resources you can draw on? Perhaps a family member or friend who can lighten your load some? <P>I wish there as something tangible I could do to help you. But I can extend a caring hand and a prayer. <P>Z<P>------------------<BR>He loves not who does not show love.<BR>----William Shakespeare
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cloudseeker,<P>{{{{{{{{{{hug}}}}}}}}}}<P>I am sorry for your pain. Sometimes the only way to get over it is right through the middle of it. And so we get stuck in the quagmire. When that happens it’s not a bad thing to wallow there for a while. This seems to actually hasten the healing process.<P>Are there any resources you can draw on? Perhaps a family member or friend who can lighten your load some? <P>I wish there as something tangible I could do to help you. But I can extend a caring hand and a prayer. <P>Z<P>------------------<BR>He loves not who does not show love.<BR>----William Shakespeare
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Just wanted you to know that you really aren't alone. I feel many of those things too. I just try and get through one day at a time.
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Just wanted you to know that you really aren't alone. I feel many of those things too. I just try and get through one day at a time.
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Cloudseeker,<P>The menu shows 6 posts but I only see your initial thread post. I hope you were able to read the posts and get some support before this site went down. <P>Can you please write back and let us know how you are doing?<P>Thanks,<BR>L.<BR>
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