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Well...for everyone keeping up with my story...<BR>My H had problems with the new car....2 nights in a row it acted up in first gear...will have to see if it does it again...<BR>Anyway...last night I came home from work to...My H sleeping at home in our bed!...he mumbled he wanted to sleep in a bed tonight??...the previous night he knew that I had wanted him to stay?...but he had gone back to his parents house and ended up drinking a few beers and passing out...<BR>Well...it seemed like he was afraid to initiate anything and I didn't want to agitate him since he complained of bad back pain when I came in...so we never did communicate over doing anything...he seemed frustrated about that...but didn't admit it...I could tell...LOL....tis some of his old personality once more...<BR>Anyway the car was supposedly fixed for free since it happened on first day we had it...am waiting to see if they really fixed it or not...will probably know either tonight or tomorrow....<BR>Anyway...we're all making bets here as to if he is sleeping here again when I get home tonight...I say no..he'll make the excuse he needs to do his laundry at his parents house...my brother and friend both say he'll be here....<BR>I have the anticipated feeling that I'll win...but then again...can't be too sure?...he's almost always around lately except for when he works??...just like our dating days....we'll see tonight...well....early morning...I'll be getting here between 4 and 5 AM or so....<BR>Opinions all?...I'm trying real hard not to hope on this one...tis why I take the "he won't be here" line...so I won't be down if he isn't....

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Dear MacGyver,<P>He is assuming you will give him a place to stay? Is that ok with you? Do you feel he is treating you with dignity and respect? <P>Sorry for being so hard with the questions. The answers belong to you. <P>My H didn't want to talk but wanted the benefits. Right now he is benefitting from the tax payer's $$$$. Free room and board for 1 night. <P>Don't let your H take advantage of your or walk all over you. You are worth more than that. <P>L.<BR>


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