My wife had a two day stand with some handsome guy who set her up. The first time he got her to drink a lot and the second time he just came over with no alcohol involved but then she was conditioned to expect sex again and did it again. I asked her which was better the first time when she drank or the second time. She said the first time. I have never been intimate when I drank because I don't drink. My wife had 16 glasses of beer in a two hour period. Yet she was able to walk to her house with this guy and actively have sex. How is this possible. You'd think you would just flop down and pass out almost but she said she thoroughly enjoyed the sex with this guy. I am wondering if she could initiate the sex and do all kinds of stuff while having drank this much or if telling me she drank this much was sort of an excuse or cover up to say she was not totally responsible for her actions?

Rodger,<P>I am sure the alcohol made your wife much looser and lose her inhabitions. Maybe the 2nd time (was it the next day?) she was hung-over and couldn't think straight. <P>It does seem strange that she could drink so much, especially if she is not a drinker. But if the party and atmosphere is really "up" then maybe it got her "groovin'".<P>I have found that a drink or two can make sex better, because it makes one loose and uninhibited, but too many drinks just makes you numb and you can't feel things as well. I think the reason your W enjoyed it better the first time was because the alcohol killed her guilt feelings and the 2nd time she knew fully what she was doing. Just a thought.<P>R3

Sex? What's that?

I'm with WAT ... what's that?<BR><P>------------------<BR>terri<BR><B>Courage</B><P>Whatever course you decide upon,<BR>there is always someone to tell you<BR>that you are wrong.<P>There are always difficulties arising<BR>which tempt you to believe that your <BR>critics are right.<P>To map out a course of action <BR>and follow it to an end <BR>requires courage.<P><I>Ralph Waldo Emerson</I>

Wow ummm IMHO Sex while intoxicated isnt worth it..... why do it if you have a good chance of forgetting it happened?.<BR>doesnt seem like something i want to try...... IMO

Hi Rodg..<P>I have had to teach this kind of stuff when I was doing an Alcohol Awareness thing....<P>Alcohol as you all know is a depressant and it starts on that part of our brain that has to do with morals and inhibitions....soooooooo.....a normally in control person may loose control when they are drunk...<P>In the case of your W, it sounds like she was just at the point between drunk enough to know what was going on and almost too drunk to continue. There is a point where the alcohol starts to work on your other ograns....eventually, a person that is drunk enough won't know anything...which is why some people used to try to get their partners totally drunk and then have sex with them...constituting rape in some areas....<P>A place I used to teach at had an incident in which there was a party at a local home...found under the bed was a high school cheerleader....suffering acute alcohol poisoning...<P>So, to answer your question...yes it is possible...<P>Personally, the best sex for me is completely sober sex....<P>Hope this helps