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Does anyone know how long most affiars last? My H has been in one for 1.5. yrs. He has lived with her for 7 months. Do I stand a chance??
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Gabby the fact is some affairs never end. Sometimes (I think) that fact that you get on with your life is what might sway the WS into reconsidering. A stong, confident woman might make them re-think what they are missing. But wondering if there is really a fog or how their life together is going is going to only torture you and make it harder for you to take care of yourself.
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I'm sure you right. I'm getting on with my life. I'm nothaving as fun as H. I have the kids, bills and everything else to worry about. He only has himself and ow. Wow! That means they will always be in heaven together.
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Gabby,<BR>Do you have the kids? If so, enjoy them. They need you as much as you need them. Things will get better. They always do.<P>I never thought I would be going this direction with my W. The pain and suffering. Never. But guess what, I'm in it and I need to protect myself and the kids. My W is in fogland and I can only do so much. <P>I know it tough Gabby, but hopefully you see daylight. Like you wrote "You're moving on". Keep posting on this site. It has helped me greatly.<P>Dino<BR>
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How long has it been for you? My children are 12 and 15. The pain is so hard to deal with at times..
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