Hi Starpony--Just wanted to let you know I received your long message by email and am dying to e-talk with you about so many things. Read the message as we were packing up the residence and workplace and heading to the capital here; had time to fire off one last long query to JL over on Plan A/B and wanted to write you a long email, but between the demands of closing up the project for the season, and H hovering over me every second, had zero opportunity. My own computer is now unavailable to me and I'm stuck with internet cafes...I don't know if it's the servers here or yahoo, but I cannot get into yahoo mail...so I thought I'd write a note here and hope you'd see it and know I'll be in touch as soon as possible. I wish we could talk about a lot of things......this is a really rough time for me and it'd be so nice to communicate with someone who's been through something very similar. Oh joy, H just came back and is forcing off the internet...grrrr, have to go. All the best, octavia

octavia<P>got your message - also read your Plan A/B thread and I have some thoughts there as well. Have a safe trip. I'll e-mail you..<P>starpony