Hi Lori!<P>On WAT's post "Plan B", you made reference to "Freedom" regarding A duration. Is "Freedom" a veteran poster? Can you give me more info???<P>Thanks Hon ....<BR>Jo<P>------------------<BR>"Remain flexible like a reed, as opposed to an oak which can snap in the wind"

Hi, Sweetie!<P>Yup, Freedom was here when I came on - or when I started lurking. Along with Roofman and some others.<P>Let's see...if I remember, he was WS, left home, moved in with OW, stayed gone for more than 2 years...and there was something about an airport, Hari Krishna and a revelation or something and he returned. He popped back on once or twice in the last year or two and updated us. Ok, so maybe not Hari Krishna (or however you spell it!), but I KNOW there's an airport in there somewhere! I do believe his sainted wife Plan A'd (though I don't think she called it that!) the whole time.<P>How're you doing, btw?<P>Love,<P>Lori<p>[This message has been edited by lostva (edited July 13, 2001).]

Hi, <B>Jo - </B><BR>Check out <A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/Forum1/HTML/009868.html" TARGET=_blank>The whole story</A><P>--DeWayne--

Thank you, Lori .... <P>I'm going to go read his story in archives, it sounds almost like a Love Story.<P>I'm doing okay, thanks for asking. I have those bad days and I tell myself that those days are necessary to get thru this, that I have to experience them and it's a good thing, that they're somewhat like growing pains when you're a teenager.<P>For a few months I was absent from MB, and did some things I am not proud of. Thing is, when I was doing them I knew I was the one to suffer and I knew I was trying to avoid facing and dealing with the hurt from Steve's D. (I call it my H's D, because that's what it is ... lol)<P>I still love my H, Lori. I'm pretty sure I will always feel this way. I just remind myself he doesn't and probably won't ever again reciprocate .... because like Cali has said "Love just is".<P>I hope you are well, Lori.<P>God Bless you ....<BR>Jo

I don't think that post tells the entire story. Freedom ended up divorced with neither his wife or his OW. He ended up alone.

Ohhh, I missed that part! Thanks, Susan. Not a great example then, huh? Well, maybe, still. There's a lesson everywhere, our Sheba would say.<P>Lori