I guess the place to start is at the beginning. I have been married to this man for 32yrs. He started his A's two years after we were married and has continued. We have been through marriage counseling 3 times and he's on his second go round with an individual counselor. His behavior has allenated his daughter's My youngest daughter actually discovered one affair two yrs ago and after a yr, forgave her father. I have a really big problem with resentment after all these year. I don't know how many A's he's had but I have proof of at least six. Should I still try? Is there any HOPE? He said he will never leave me for AW.