Well I have been busy, I received some great posts from bs that dont have there ws at home with them like myself. While deciding which road to take my wife decided to end the relationship with the OM. This is the second time but the first one was I just wont answer his contacts. This one although it didnt come voluntarily, i noticed something was wrong and she told me she spoke with him and ended it.<BR> I do believe her this time as long as she can keep the will power not to call him or respond to his contacts. So I go to the councelor this week after a very long 2 weeks of ups and downs, and you guys no my response already on whether I want to work on the marriage.<BR> I'm sure that wont happen right away she has a long fog lift ahead of her over a year with OM several d-days the last over 6 months ago. So i know the withdrawl is going to be hard and long, I just wish I knew how hard. <BR> I'm finally slowing down from that detective mode, now I have to take a step back and try another round of Plan Aing i guess.<BR> Well I just wanted to keep everybody whos anybody up to date and thanks for all the support, I wish you guys best of luck also. I do have to say I'm really not an optomest.

I'm not familiar with your posts, but I think I have the jist of it. Yes! hang in there - sounds like you have more Plan A'ing to do. you can do it. And I'm happy you have a little light shining on your situation! Good luck to you!<P>------------------<BR>Faith1<P>"Then Jesus answered, 'Woman, you have great faith! Your request is granted.'"<BR>Matt 15:28