Welcome to the
Marriage Builders® Discussion Forum
This is a community where people come in search of marriage related support, answers, or encouragement. Also, information about the Marriage Builders principles can be found in the books available for sale in the Marriage Builders® Bookstore.
If you would like to join our guidance forum, please read the Announcement Forum for instructions, rules, & guidelines.
The members of this community are peers and not professionals. Professional coaching is available by clicking on the link titled Coaching Center at the top of this page.
We trust that you will find the Marriage Builders® Discussion Forum to be a helpful resource for you. We look forward to your participation.
Once you have reviewed all the FAQ, tech support and announcement information, if you still have problems that are not addressed, please e-mail the administrators at
mbrestored@gmail.com
|
|
|
|
Joined: Jul 2001
Posts: 15
Junior Member
|
OP
Junior Member
Joined: Jul 2001
Posts: 15 |
I've completed Plan A and WS has ask to come and work on our marriage. WS does this everytime WS gets caught having A. Treats me like queen. What should I do to ensure that this just isn't a ploy to keep me from takeing WS to court? This is 6thA that I have proof of and the first time WS has read the laws regarding A in marriage. How will I know WS is sincere? I've been here about two weeks and have yet to get a response from anyone, but I still have faith that this will help.
|
|
|
|
|
Joined: Dec 2000
Posts: 59
Member
|
|
Member
Joined: Dec 2000
Posts: 59 |
<p>[ January 10, 2002: Message edited by: LonelyAtNight ]</p>
|
|
|
|
|
Joined: May 2001
Posts: 1,227
Member
|
|
Member
Joined: May 2001
Posts: 1,227 |
Hi RB. If H is treating you like a queen, see if he will read Surviving an Affair by the Harley's. If you can implement the suggestions in that book, you will be able to affair-proof your marriage.<P>Have you considered counseling with the Harley's at all? Is your H willing to do that? It may be worth it.<BR>
|
|
|
|
|
Joined: Jul 2001
Posts: 15
Junior Member
|
|
OP
Junior Member
Joined: Jul 2001
Posts: 15 |
<BLOCKQUOTE><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by LonelyAtNight:<BR><B>Rainbue</B>,<BR>As people here said before plan A is for life if you want your marriage to cherish in the long run. I don’t have that much experience to advise you on how to handle or know if your WS is sincere or not, but are you and your WS in counseling? Maybe this time you ask your WS to go to see a counselor with you before you take him back. Have you read SSA book and fill in the EN questionnaires for both of you? If your WS is willing to work on your marriage then maybe it is time for you to find out what are his ENs so that you can fulfill them before he goes out and looks for somewhere else. Of course he has to fulfill your ENs also to make your marriage work.<P>LAN<HR></BLOCKQUOTE><BR>I've read the books, H scanned it. EN questionnair ? H took a look at it and said he didn't have time for that stuff. H is seeing his own counselor, and I have my own. H said it is to early to go to MC together. We have tried MC's twice before together and they advised me to leave the marriage, so he's not very receptable to couple counseling. Seeing him this weekend and hoping he's done ENQ. Thanks!<BR>
|
|
|
|
|
Joined: Jul 2001
Posts: 15
Junior Member
|
|
OP
Junior Member
Joined: Jul 2001
Posts: 15 |
<BLOCKQUOTE><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by hurtbyhubby:<BR><B>Hi RB. If H is treating you like a queen, see if he will read Surviving an Affair by the Harley's. If you can implement the suggestions in that book, you will be able to affair-proof your marriage.<P>Have you considered counseling with the Harley's at all? Is your H willing to do that? It may be worth it.</B><HR></BLOCKQUOTE><P>I've read the books, H scanned it. EN questionnair ? H took a look at it and said he didn't have time for that stuff. H is seeing his own counselor, and I have my own. H said it is to early to go to MC together. We have tried MC's twice before together and they advised me to leave the marriage, so he's not very receptable to couple counseling. Seeing him this weekend and hoping he's done ENQ. Thanks!<BR>
|
|
|
|
1 members (Crazybull),
485
guests, and
70
robots. |
|
Key:
Admin,
Global Mod,
Mod
|
|
|
Forums67
Topics133,623
Posts2,323,501
Members71,976
| |
Most Online3,224
May 9th, 2025
|
|
|
|
|
|
