gdc,<P>I'm in NC too and your situation sounds similar to mine. Is there some way we can communicate directly? I haven't many friends locally and no family near by. I could really use a friend nearby right now and maybe you could too? I have been in plan A for 3.5 months my wife moved out also in June. I have become very familiar with most of the MB information/books and have started the counseling service which I have found to be excellent. But this is absolute hell. I love my wife want to save my marriage also.<P>Please let me know.