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I have been married almost 13yrs. In November my husband left saying he was sad. I found out in March that he has been living with OW the whole time and still is. I went away with the children for 3 weeks hoping that he would have missed us he is still with her. He has started seeing a councelor just this past week. I have an appointment with a Lawyer to file for D which I really do not want to do. He was the one who left he has to make the choice to Dor to reconcile. Am I crazy. Should I think there is any hope left at all. I pray for guidance I have given my problems to the Lord and take them back to quickly. Can anyone help me through this? My children 4,7,and 9 are so confussed I am starting family counceling next week with them. Am I crazy to think that my WS will ever end his affair and come back to us?
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No--you are not crazy...But don't 'wait.'<P>Take control of YOUR life...make necessary changes for you and your children...move forward...live life....<P>Sometimes when WS sees BS and family moving forward without their own perception of reality changes...<P>Cali
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