Well another disapointing weekend. My wife came by to drop the dog off and said she will be looking for an apt. temporarily that the 1 hr. communte from her parents was very tiring. She said that she was not ready to come back right now that she needed emotional space. She felt cornered by me, her family and that she needed more time. I told her she could have a bed, the computer and whatever else. I wrote her a check for school and she left. She said that she would also need to see my evidence (videotape) should I show her. She is coming by tonight to make a CD, not sure what is going to happen. Conversation is nice as long as it's not about us. She said she was going to make this decision on her own w/o anybody's influence (parents and sisters) that the only person that needed an explanation is me. I'm stuck between Plan A and B as she is gone already, what do I do????

Do nothing until you have peace about whatever decision that you make. If you feel confused, just wait until you are clear. God is speaking to you but you have to get quiet--really quiet and stop thinking, thinking and thinking about what if this and what if that. Just stop. Be still, and know that He is God and He is speaking to you. He will lead you and guide you and show you. You have to listen to Him and stop listening to all the confusion.

Thank you very much, those were exactly what I was looking for!<P>