This past weekend, was on the way to the Grocery Store with my W and this song came on, O-Town Nothing At All. Kinda like I feel alot of days. I know alot of you are there also. Oh ya, if you hear it.. and she's near.. RUN very far away.. you'll lose all control of your emotions. <P>If you haven't heard it... d/l its at audiogalaxy.com<BR> <BR>Do a search for O-Town on the homepage...<P>Then buy the cd.. and delete the d/l <P>O-TOWN (boy group)<BR>(Steve Mac, Wayne Hector) <BR>Produced, recorded and mixed by Steve Mac<P>I know when he's been on your mind<BR>That distant look is in your eyes <BR>I thought with time you'd realize <BR>It's over, over <BR>It's not the way I choose to live <BR>And something somewhere's got to give <BR>As sharing this relationship gets older, older<P>You know I'd fight for you <BR>But how I can fight someone who isn't even there <BR>I've had the rest of you now I want the best of you <BR>I dont care if that's not fair<P>Chorus:<BR>Cause I want it all <BR>Or nothing at all <BR>There's no where left to fall<BR>When you reach the bottom it's now or never <BR>Is it all <BR>Or are we just friends <BR>Is this how it ends <BR>With a simple telephone call <BR>You leave me here with nothing at all<P>There are times it seems to me <BR>I'm sharing you with memories <BR>I feel it in my heart <BR>But I don't show it, show it <BR>And then there's times you look at me <BR>As though I'm all that you can see <BR>Those times I don't believe it's right <BR>I know it, know it<P>Don't make me promises <BR>Baby you never did know how to keep them well <BR>I've had the rest of you <BR>Now I want the best of you <BR>It's time for show and tell<P>Chorus:<BR>Cause I want it all <BR>Or nothing at all <BR>There's no where left to fall<BR>When you reach the bottom it's now or never <BR>Is it all <BR>Or are we just friends <BR>Is this how it ends <BR>With a simple telephone call <BR>You leave me here with nothing...<P>Cause you and I<BR>Could lose it all if you've got no more room <BR>No room inside for me in your life<BR>Cause I want it all <BR>Or nothing at all <BR>There's no where left to fall <BR>It's now or never<P>Is it all?<BR>Or nothing at all <BR>There's no where left to fall<BR>When you reach the bottom it's now or never <BR>Is it all? <BR>Or are we just friends <BR>Is this how it ends <BR>With a simple telephone call <BR>You leave me here with nothing at all<P>******<P>Husband2you<p>[This message has been edited by Husband2you (edited July 24, 2001).]

Oh wow. What an awesome song. I usually hate boy bands, but that song really hits home. <P>But here's a question I have now... <P>My wife and I used to send songs to each other when we were dating, and in the first year of our marriage. Actually, while we were dating, I broke up with her for another woman, and she sent me a song and it did it to me and I came back to her and we were married soon after that.<P>I want to send this song to her. Do you guys think it is a bad idea?

Guys,<P>get the album 'White Ladder' by David Grey. Put track 9 on 'Sail Away', take the women in your life in your arms and dance. If she doesn't kiss you after this, I will :-)<P>Sail away with me baby....

Hey - what does this mean? My W (the WS) told me a few weeks ago that she really liked that song, the O-Town one... Is this bad for me or good?<P>zen

without knowing the context in which she said it.. I couldn't tell you. I don't know how anyone in an A could like that song.. unless they are getting (excuse me here) 'dissed by the OM/OW.<P>But the song is still good regardless what we pull out of it in pain. <P>I suppose if Kenny Rogers 'Lady' was still popular and playing all the time.. it would be a trigger for me also.. but it doesn't apply to me since I haven't heard it recently to be a trigger.<P>------------------<BR>Husband2You<BR>*****<BR>Don't make me promises <BR>Baby you never did know how to keep them well <BR>I've had the rest of you <BR>Now I want the best of you <BR>It's time for show and tell<P>'All or Nothing' © 2001 O-Town

Guys how bout this one from Marc Anthony.<BR>I really hate it when stuck in trafic with WS while the radio plays this song...<P><BR>"Don't Let Me Leave"<P>How can this be<BR>Though all these years I have been true to thee<BR>You had the nerve to say you're done with me<BR>And that I should leave<BR>Girl you killing me<P>Take another day<BR>Before you go and throw it all away<BR>And if you do I know we'll find a way<BR>Just believe in me<BR>'Cause I'm here to stay<P>Don't let me leave here girl<BR>'Cause if I do I promise I will look the other way<BR>Girl I know you need me by your side<BR>You don't see it, but I know it<BR>This is why<P>Don’t let me leave you girl<BR>Just let me tell you why<BR>You're all I ever needed<BR>And everything worth fighting for<P>Before you go and throw it all away<BR>Girl I just know that we can find a way<BR>Please believe in me<BR>'Cause I'm here to stay<P>Don't let me leave here girl<BR>'Cause if I do I promise I will look the other way<BR>Girl I know you need me by your side<BR>You don't see it, but I know it<BR>This is why<P>Don’t let me leave you girl<BR>Just let me tell you why<BR>You're all I ever needed<BR>And everything worth fighting for<BR>

Damn, that IS good...<P>I like the part in both songs (man, I can't believe I'm writing this -- NOT an O-Town fan, normally) about not being able to fight someone who's not there... I'd really kind of love it if it were really sort of like the old days, where I could just kick the OM's @$$ and "champion" my W off of her feet. Too bad we have lawsuits etc. these days...<P>zen<P>ps: OK, one more confession: I really kind of like "Pop" by N'Sync. But for some reason, the song that is REALLY stuck in my head right now is "Get Ur Freak On" by Missy... That joint jams...

Zen, I know what you mean! Sometimes I wish it were as simple as flying up to the OM's house and running him through with a sword, and your wife runs to your side, grateful for ridding her of this plague of a man.<P>But of course, that's not how things are. <P>Now since misery loves company, try making it through this song without crying like a baby...<P><BR>"Everybody Hurts"<BR>By REM<P>When your day is long and the night,<BR>The night is yours alone<BR>When you're sure you've had enough of this life,<BR>well hang on<BR>Don't let yourself go, 'cause everybody cries ,and everybody hurts<BR>Sometimes.., sometimes everything is wrong,<BR>Now it's time to sing along<BR>…<BR>If you think you've had too much of this life,<BR>well hang on<BR>'Cause everybody hurts,<BR>take comfort in your friends<BR>Everybody hurts,<BR>don't throw your hands, oh now,<BR>Don't throw your hands<BR>If you feel like you're alone,<BR>no, no, no, you're not alone<BR>If you're on your own in this life,<BR>the days and nights are long<BR>When you think you've had too much,<BR>of this life, to hang on<P>Well everybody hurts, sometimes<BR>Everybody cries, and everybody hurts, sometimes<BR>But everybody hurts sometimes<BR>so hold on, hold on, hold on,<BR>Hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on,<BR>Everybody hurts, you are not alone<BR>

Here's two songs for you. I wrote the lyrics for both songs in letters I wrote my W and even gave her the cds. Now everytime we go some where together and one of these songs plays on the radio, which happens alot, she gets this sad look and changes the station. She will always have to think of me and remeber what she has done to me and our family when she hears these songs.<P>"Drops of Jupiter(Tell Me)" by TRAIN<BR>"If You'er Gone" by MATCHBOX TWENTY<P>They are kind of dark I guess but I'll admit they say how I feel sometimes.<P>silwl

How about that new song by Uncle Cracker about infidelity. Every time I hear it I have to turn it off because it says a lot about how my wife and OM met. One day in the car my wife was listening to the song and she actually started to sing it. That is about the only song she has sung to. I should have known. Does anyone have the words?

<A HREF="http://www.lyrics.com" TARGET=_blank>www.lyrics.com</A> <P>------------------<BR>Husband2You<BR>*****<BR>Don't make me promises <BR>Baby you never did know how to keep them well <BR>I've had the rest of you <BR>Now I want the best of you <BR>It's time for show and tell<P>'All or Nothing' © 2001 O-Town

Okay...I'm a female...but I'm jumping in anyway...as I am wont to do...I'm just one of those females who doesn't know her 'place.'<P>The Matchbox 20 song really has me going right now...<BR>"If You're Gone"<P>Then my H has been playing Jill Scott songs til I could die, cause I think he's thinking of her.<P>We also listen to a lot of Rap/Urban/HipHop...(my H is Black),there's a female artist who sings of her H cheating and how she takes him to the bank...(i.e. runs up his credit cards and drains the bank acccount...takes the big house, new car...etc.) I will have to look up the name, but the play it A LOT, lately. Funny how H turns the channel !<P>Cali<BR>There's one out right now<P>------------------<BR><I>Live Impeccably In Your Word.<BR>Don't Take Anything Personally.<BR>Make No Assumptions.<BR>Do Your Best Always. </I>

...and the girls

<P>Cali