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An email to my H from the OW that she blind CC'd to me<P>Hi Honey,<BR> It's been so long since I have written e-mail to you. I know you said no more but I thought you mite want to know this. Rich (her H) bought me a brand new mustang convertible!! It's red, my very fav color!! May be if you get one for your wife she can be happy again too. It's just a thought I had. I hope it can help. She seems stresed out and sad. May be with the wind blowing in her hair while she drives a kewl car like mine she can stop being sad. Still miss U lover!<BR>D.<P>So there you have it...the solution to cheating...a Red Mustang Convertible...grrrrrrrrrrrrr

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UNBELIEVABLE!!!

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incredible....ya just gotta wonder what goes through their minds...wait WAT....do I hear the mothership hovering???<P>Cali

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Can you say manipulation?<P>Can you say car insurance? Total? Dent? Keys?...hehe...<P>Now who is in the fog?? "Oh, honey!! Welcome home from your affair!! Thank you so much for coming home!! Here, let me reward your infidelity with this convertible. We dont need counselling, you just need a new toy to look good in as you go after your next affair!!! I hope you like your new boy toy!!"<P>Excuse me...I need to run the mens room to puke!!<P>Trueheart

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Ohhh gosh .... it certainly sux to be HER, TinyDancer.<P>When I read something like this, I am almost ashamed to be a member of the female species. Why do women do this to one another? What were our H's thinking when they got themselves involved with this element? Just ewwwwwwwwww!<P><BR>Tiny Dancer ... Ignore it and move on. It all spawns from jealousy. <P>Best,<BR>Jo<P><p>[This message has been edited by Resilient (edited July 24, 2001).]

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I knew there was a reason I hated mustangs.. especially the red convertibles.. kewl?? I don't think so.<P>------------------<BR>Husband2You<BR>*****<BR>Don't make me promises <BR>Baby you never did know how to keep them well <BR>I've had the rest of you <BR>Now I want the best of you <BR>It's time for show and tell<P>'All or Nothing' © 2001 O-Town

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No, not from the Mothership. This one's from a totally different dimension.

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Anyone who uses the expression "kewl" [sic] deserves to... well, you fill in the blank...<P>zen

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Ow's replacement for the WS? A red mustang. Is it insulting to be replaced by a car? To a man, maybe not. In the fog...... anything goes. <P>OW has a screw loose. Where is the nut to tighten the screw with? Oh, I am not mechanically inclined. I might be using the wrong tool. Where is Tim the tool man? <P>Mrs. OW Frankenstein has lost a bolt...... LoL!!! <P>IMHO, you should e-mail this love letter to her H. Maybe he will give you the car and you can sell it to another OW?!?!?! Keep the change!!<P><BR>L.<BR><p>[This message has been edited by Orchid (edited July 24, 2001).]

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YES! ... OMG Orchid, your ideas are great!

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LOL you all made me laugh. One good thing came of all this. I will now know her car when she drives past my house 72 times each night. I would love to see my H's reply but I won't ask or mention it. I'm sticking to my Plan A

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OMG, some people are just too shallow for words. So does this mean that each time she wants a new car all she has to do is have an affair?<P>What does she need to do for the diamond necklace? How about her dream house?<P>Geeeezzzzzzz<P>Z<P>------------------<BR>He loves not who does not show love.<BR>----William Shakespeare

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I would reply back:<BR>"Congratulations!"<P>And leave it at that, nothing angry nothing flip. It will leave her wondering, because no reply back would let her know that you are upset about her blind CC to you.

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What a manipulative psycho ----- (you can be creative and fill in the blanks!)<P>OW...trying to pretend to be friendly and initiate contact.<P>If she keeps getting rewarded for having affairs...she'll end up having her own car dealership!

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Well, there used to be a theory that cars were really thinly-disguised phallic symbols. Hhhhmmmm....<P> [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]<P>Kathi

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That is ONE sick WITCH!!!<P>What a horrible way to live her life --<P><BR>AS HER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]<P>Ya gotta feel sorry for her, living with a mind that thinks like HERS DOES!!!!!!!!!!!!!<P>Hmmmmm, 72 trips past your house a day?????Do ya know any cops who can lend you SPIKE STRIPS????? Just a thought [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]

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I have been reading here for allmost 1 month and this thread got me feeling like I needed to answer.<BR>To Tiny Dancer: How did she get your e-mail address? Had to be from your husband eh? Seems you are misdirecting your anger to her.<BR>To the rest of you: You are all comming down hard on the other woman but what about Tiny's husband? He caused her pain not this other woman. What is wrong with the other woman's husband giving her a car as a welcome back to the marriage gift? Kudos to him for creative thinking. Maybe if Tiny get's a gift she'll cool off too. I'd give my wife what ever it took to get her back.

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Hi Zima, so happy I influenced you to register. This is a great place to get advice and vent frustrations. <BR>I'll answer your questions...the OW got my email addy because she works for my H and she and I were friendly at one point. I'm not misdirecting anger. I'm angry at both of them but more so at my H, who broke his vows to me.<BR>As far as rewarding a WS (his wife) for having an affair guess that's his business huh? You didn't by any chance purchase a red Mustang Convertible this week did you? <BR>Have a great day!<P>------------------<BR>I'm standing here until you make me move.<BR>I'm hanging by a moment here with you.<BR>From Hanging by a Moment by Lifehouse

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So maybe this is the settlement for the emotional adultery/divorce? <P>OW's H:<BR>"Yes your honor, my W wants a red mustang convertible as a result of her unfaithfulness. In return, I (the OW's H), will continue to provide my immoral and loose W with a red car for all each of her following escapades. As a result, I (OW's H) will now have to purchase new land to build a new home with more garages. The house will be small (since OW is never home anyway) but there will be 1 red car in each garage." <P>Judge: "Emotional divorce. Granted All alimony will be paid in the form of 1 red car. Match box sizes accepted for A's lasting less than 6 months. Model size cars accepted for 6 - 24 months. Anything over 2 years will be a gas powered vehicle. Riding lawn mowers are accepted."<P>L.<P><BR>

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ZimaMan.....you think we're coming down hard on the OW? I think not! Did you notice that the OW blind cc'd Tinydancer? Talk about manipulation. In addition, the OW even admits that Tiny Dancer's H wants NO CONTACT, yet this OW is initiating contact! Notice how OW addresses TinyDancer's H in endearing ways? It is so obvious what the OW's intentions are!<p>[This message has been edited by Survivor [aka_NoTrust] (edited July 24, 2001).]

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