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#932595 07/25/01 07:35 PM
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It looks like the fog has lifted. My H called and asked me to meet him after work. We just spent the past 2 hours discussing divorce...not ours though. It seems his favorite brother, who is also his best friend, called him today to tell say that he and his wife are divorcing. His wife, the WS, which NO ONE knew about, has left him and their kids for another man (thank god he is single). My H is very upset and told me he will do anything to keep this from happening to our family. I am hopeful but not convinced. Hopefully time will tell.<P>------------------<BR>I'm standing here until you make me move.<BR>I'm hanging by a moment here with you.<BR>From Hanging by a Moment by Lifehouse<p>[This message has been edited by TinyDancer (edited July 25, 2001).]

#932596 07/25/01 07:45 PM
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I hope it is good news. Best of luck to you when you meet with your H. My fingers are crossed XXXXXXXX<P>Keep us posted on what happens.<P>Karen<BR>

#932597 07/25/01 07:47 PM
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TD...(being a football coach, I like those letters... [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com])<P>One step at a time!! Sometimes our beacons shine brightest from another fog bank. It would seem he has seen a little light. Make sure you read, read, read, and dont push, push, push. Take it slow. I have seen where a BS can pull the WS spouse so fast, they run back into the fog cuz its safer to them, at that particular moment.<P>I am not trying to scare you, and your news is very hopeful, just pulling in the reins a bit. Best of Luck!!<P>*Go confidently in the direction of your dreams.*<P>Trueheart

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Thanks for the well wishes and thanks "Coach" for reigning me in lol. I do have a tendency to move too fast [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]<BR> I'll take 2 steps back and watch for another fog to roll in, all the while praying it's clear sailing ahead.<P>------------------<BR>I'm standing here until you make me move.<BR>I'm hanging by a moment here with you.<BR>From Hanging by a Moment by Lifehouse

#932599 07/26/01 08:50 AM
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But don't let go of that ray of hope just yet! Hope is a good thing! And maybe, just maybe, the sunlight he saw can truly break his fog. Sometimes it takes things like that to put our own lives into perspective. Maybe he tried to envision a future without you, and the fog indeed lifted. Maybe not, but regardless, this is Good News, I think!


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