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GC - you're completely normal for your situation. So is she. Be thankful she's in counseling, but be wary that she's being honest about it - to you, the counselor, and to herself.<P>Talking to Steve will help you. Please let us know how it goes.<P>My only advice from your last post is "stop preaching." She reacted negatively so it's an LB. Read her reactions to all your interactions and back off the things that ruffle her feathers.<P>WAT
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WAT, thanks for the reply. I'm trying to follow the rules but it is so hard. I guess this is par for the course. She's going to a wedding this weekend, I hope that she pays special attn. to the vows!<P>GC
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OK all, I just wanted to let everyone know that I just had an incredible session with Steve H. He made me see things so much more clearly with respect to my situation and relating to Plan A. I need some refinaing but overall my Plan A is going well. Just focus focus focus and things will start to make sense. Not sure if the A is over or not his take is if it's not been stated clearly that you must assume it's still going on. Not sendng the video major LB, just keep with the plan demonstrate change and meet needs.<BR>This helped me alot and I would recommend a session if your losing hope and/or confused.<P>Thanks,<BR>GC
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