Okay...I've just done a search on RealityChecks posts...noticed that he/she/it started posting the same day HurricaneCali whirled into town...<P>I've been having impressions, based on the language used in rc's posts, that rc might be princess...my H's OW.<P>In her second post rc uses all caps for the word MAN, she also refers to soulmate...and talks about state of marriage as miserable...the syntax and grammar that is used...well since I know princess and have heard her talk many times...that is the voice I hear when I read rc's posts...<P>Funny last message I listened to from OW to my H used just those words. How he was her MAN. They were soulmates. Oh, and that she would rather eat dirt than stay in her miserable marriage.<P>If it isn't princess...she is definitely one bitter woman...possibly the woman I assigned to purgatory...OW's friend that was 'encouraging' my H and emailing him about OW's birthday....<P>anyway...I thought it was a curious coincidence....<P>Cali<BR>

Hmmm... interesting. I guess you'll never know though. If anything, I think it would be great for the OP to read what's really happening (the good stuff of course) hehehe.<P>Karen

Cali,<P>It is very possible. But one thing bugs me. In one of his/her threads, RC refers to his wife. What do you make of that?<P>Z<P>------------------<BR>He loves not who does not show love.<BR>----William Shakespeare

I thought it strange thrown in like that -<P>okay, what's the theory? why? is it another (or same) invader from the OP mart?

Seemed like a man to me? Notice how they called out STL? I don't know, just a hunch. I have only known STL & Zorweb to be very strong advocates of MB principles with extensive resources, both in practical life experience, technical knowledge (html) and presentation of their posts, very articulate and easy to read--as well as locating and referencing useful material on the site via URLs. <P>OH, and the way STL and Zorweb handled RC--with such style and grace and honesty. It just proves that they are working these principles and the principles are working for them. I got a "reality check" that STL and Zorweb are as solid as what they preach to us...<P>Didn't you just love the way they both responded and STLs post came first?! I don't know about anyone else, but they minister to me and that's what counts. If someone is getting helped, then we just have to focus on that and keep going forward.

just a though for RealityCheck:<P>In a Poll found in USA Today its proven that 9 out of 10 people overstay their welcome.<P><BR>Just something for you to think about

Cali<BR>and i thought she was my H's XOW<BR>i dunno i dont care today either Ill worry about that tomarrow

Cali, I was wondering who's OP it was. I knew it belonged to someone in here. The undertone of judgement by it/him/her is a tad bit of overkill. Good guess...you observation powers amaze me!!<P>BTW...have a great trip. We will be thinking of you!!<P>*Go confidently in the direction of your dreams.*<P>True

Hey--<P>yeah, Z I noticed that in a couple of posts rc responded as a male...talked about wife...I have to check, but there was a time when Just A Person was impersonating her H...<P>The other thing is now that I know OW's H also has been reading here...I guess it could be him...but I still can't understand all the animosity...I understand him wanting to get my H, but me? I have no desire to hurt him, only help him.<P>Like I said...it was just the tone, tenor and word choice use...I found such curious similarities to OW...stuff she wrote and said to my H....and that rc started posting right when OW would have heard about MB from my H....<P>Cali