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OW still tries to contact should i tell her H?
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its been 10 months since Dday and H has been very good with no contact...... my problem is that OW emails H once every few weeks or so,<BR>and also tries to contact him in other ways as well<BR>we have sent the no contact letter <BR>OW just cant get a grip<P>Would it help to print the emails and mail them to her H or to tell her H thats she still trying to contact?.
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Does her husband know of the affair?<P>If he does not know that perhaps it is time.<P>I think that either mailing them to him or sending them to him by return email might be a good idea. If you do not have his email address call him and ask him for it. Copy her too.<P>If you think that is too harsh an action, then send her a return email saying that henceforth you will let her husband know of every contact.<P>After you do that, see if there is a way in your email service to block her email from reaching you. Some services provide this service.<P>Z<P>------------------<BR>He loves not who does not show love.<BR>----William Shakespeare
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1FM,<P>What does your H think about contacting OW's H. If your H is trying to make this work then the two of you should make all the decisions together. I would only consider contacting OW's H if the two of you decide together that that the right thing to do.<P>As for the email, Dr. Harley states in SAA that anything and everything should be done to prevent contact. I would suggest changing your H's email address, change phone numbers if necessary, change cell phone numbers, and change beepers (if he has one). In short, do whatever is required to prevent contact!!<P>good luck<BR>S&C
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