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I swear....this man hasn't got a brain in his head.<P>He calls me this morning....wants to know if he can come see the kids before he goes to work. He's swithced shifts for the night.<BR>Me: No...they aren't here. <BR>HIM: Where are they?<BR>ME: Your mom came and took them to the park for a while.<BR>HIM: What park did they go to?<BR>ME: I don't know. (i truly didn't know)<BR>HIM: You want me to come over to discuss some things?<BR>ME: No<BR>HIM: Why not?<BR>ME: Because....I told you already that I'm not ready to discuss that stuff right now.<BR>HIM: So I'm just supposed to wait?<BR>ME: I waited for you for 6 months and you left anyway....I don't think it's too much to ask for some time for myself.<BR>HIM: OK<BR>Alot of silence after that....then I said...if you don't want anything else I'm getting off of here. Said bye.<P>He called back later for some stupid reason....just wanna smack him upside the head.<BR>ME: Hello?<BR>HIM: Hey...what are you doin?<BR>ME: Nothing.<BR>HIM: Did you say whether or not I could have the kids Sunday night or not?<BR>ME: I already told you no. You just had them last Saturday night. Once we are divorced you will only get them every other weekend. Might as well get used to it now. No sense in confusing the girls anymore.<BR>HIM: Oh yeah....I forgot.<BR>ME: From now on you can see them every Wednsday evening and every other weekend from Saturday afternoon to Sunday evening at 5.<BR>HIM: Oh......ok...but what if I want another night during the week.<BR>ME: Well...with your hectic lifestyle I wouldn't start seeing them 2 nights a week and then all the sudden not be able to do it anymore. You've already broken too many promises to them.<BR>HIM: OK<BR>LOTS OF SILENCE.................<P>Me: Is that all you wanted?<BR>HIM: I guess so.<BR>ME: K....I'm going now. Bye<P>What was the purpose of that call? He never asked if the kids were back yet.....he knew that he couldn't have the kids this Sunday night...and already knew the visitation schedule....I'd discussed it with him the night he packed his stuff.<P>Oh...and in all this conversation....he wanted to know what race track I was going to this weekend and if I was meeting my boyfriend there. I just said.....whatever...that's getting old.<BR>
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