I've looked all over this web site at different Plan B letters.....but guess what....I don't think my WH would understand any of them.<P>I've decided that Plan B is probably in order here.<P>I just found out that my WH lied again. He was supposed to go out with friends last night and told me that he wouldn't be drinking and that the OW WOULDN'T be there.....in front of our oldest daughter. I just found out that the OW WAS there with him and that he was drinking.<BR>What the hell is going through his head??<BR>He just got through finally admitting that he was with her again....and then lied about her being there when he knew she would be? What's up with that?<BR>He's acting like a teenager and he's 30 years old.<BR>He's jeopordizing his life....his job...his relationship with his daughters....his relationship with his parents....and our marriage....which he obviously doesn't want anyway.<BR>He said the other night that he wouldn't file for divorce unless I agreed to his list.....didn't say why....he just said....that's ok....I'm not wearing a ring anymore.<BR>I know he won't because he thinks I'm going to take him to the cleaners......but I wonder if the OW will agree. Probably not. Oh well.<P>So.....I think it may be time for Plan B....or probably has been for a while.....we just get along so well most of the time.....only 1 confrontation in person since he left.<BR>BUT.....if we get along so well when together....is Plan B a good idea? Or...is it just his way of being nice thinking that if he is nice....I will agree to do things his way?<P>So....is he going to file for divorce?<BR>Does he want a divorce?<BR>What's with always being nice to me and never being able to stay mad at me?<BR>I notice that after he's spent time with her....he's usually not very cordial to me.<BR>Why is he finding it easy to admit to me that he's seeing her again....but not that he's going out with her somewhere?<BR>Why is he starting to open up to me? I know he's not telling the OW about anything that has to do with his parents or things like that. He never did last time.<P>Is this just a game for him? If I ask him where I stand....it's nowhere...I don't want to be with you.<BR>BUT.....why does he want to know what I'm doing...pretty much asking me if I'm going out and having sex with someone....and why do I see a little of the old him coming back every time he spends time with me and out daughters?<BR>He asked if he could keep his bicycle here in case our oldest wants to go for a ride one day.....but he doesn't plan on visiting with them here anymore....he said he would take them and then bring them back.<P>GOSH......I'm so fed up with head games.<P>How do you write a SIMPLE Plan B letter.....no big words. Short and to the point.

Look back to see my reply to you on your thread from earlier this morning.<BR>