Dear TOS<P>Thanks for your input. I've already highlighted important areas (when I read through it the first time). I will propose your idea to my H and see if it will work.<P>Well, his attitude has improved somewhat. You know, I don't want to give the wrong message like he is such a bad guy. He does show some affection, but sometimes not necessarily the way I need it. You know - like two days ago he put on some really nice music and as I was passing by, he grabbed me around the waist and started dancing with me! I absolutely love that kind of spontaneity!<P>Then last night I felt so down when he went out. True, it was to a farewell "do" for a very good friend of his (male), but I still continue to feel left out of everything. My problem lies in that we do not spend enough time together. Our sexual life is alright - I just felt frustrated because we didn't make love for 7 days! Usually it's every other day or twice a week (am I an animal!!!
?<P>Well, maybe I do have it going good...!<P>I just really want him to read the book because I know it will clear some things up and reinforce what I've been trying to convey to him about my needs. He told me that I meet all his needs, but I still feel he's just being polite.<P>TOS, I will call up the website "delphis" and see what comes up. I will let you know how it turns out, okay.<P>Well, today I'm actually starting fitness classes at the city gym. I registered yesterday (2 months in advance in case I get cold feet!
) Wish me luck.<P>BTW how are things with your H? Are things working out at all?<P><BR>