Hello Cybil, I finally saw your post in the thread where you asked me questions. I have never posted my story, which is why you have not been able to recall. I post the parts that I think are important at the time. <BR> Your Questions, No my husband never moved out. Our D Day was 10 months ago, He had gone on a trip for work, and came home and told me that he had had an affair. He realized his mistake, and was in such pain from it, that I had no choice but to comfort his pain. In the processes of that, he saw that the kind and loving woman he married had not been buried as he thought. Him changing 300% is about the fact that he does not yell, he does not blame, he is very understanding about home and child issues. He talks with me and not to me anymore, he asks my opinion, he draws baths for me, we read books together, He can say I AM SORRY now, and the list goes on. He is back in church with me, and we are a team again. <BR> I am a very lucky person that I have not had to deal with so many of the issues that seems to runneth over in here, but it has been a journey for us as well. I still have my bad days, and I have days where I have to really try to not LB, But for the most part we are well into recovery and will be a MB surviver story. Before I even came into the forums here, I had already read all the books, read the articles,, did my research on MB, and am now very prepared and armoured to keep my marriage safe. If most would realize that the needs of the other and yourself are the most important thing to fulfill, things would be different. I truly hope that your story ends as mine will, happy and reconciled.

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alexy I'm glad you replied it gives me hope. I am 5 days into Plan B and I think it may be working just a bit. I truly love my WH with all my heart and have been doing all I can to salvage our marriage. Please keep me in your prayers. Continued success to you and your H!<BR>Cybil