I just found out about a month ago that my h had an affair two years ago. I decided to forgive him adn give our marriage another chance since he has showed me how much he regrets ever going there. It has been very hard for me to the point that today I went to the doctor, and started taking an antidepressant; I know that recovery is going to take some time and I need something to help me cope with the pain that one endures due to betrayal. Anyway, tomorrow is our 8th wedding anniversary, and I wanted to do something xtra special, something different, but my mind feels clogged and I am having a hard time being creative. So, I wanted to know if anyone had any good ideas they wanted to share. I want to thank you for your help.<BR>Sincerely,<BR>Liz