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I was fine the last few days and now I feel a little weak today. Every song on the radio reminded me of us or him. I came home from work today and the house was trashed! My version of cleaning up and the kids version are 2 entirely different things. I feel some days as though I have no control over anything! Every time the phone rings I think it might be him calling. So far he hasn't called. WH called last night to talk to the kids. Tomorrow will be 5 days into plan B. So far I haven't caved in. I know I have to do this. I wonder if this is hard on him to because we talked everyday or he would come by. I keep praying for strength and courage. I know I have to do this.
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Good luck Cybil...I will be rooting for you. I know how hard it is. I know I wouldn't wish this experience on anyone. But it takes someone with courage to be able to do it. I wish we could have succeeded.<P>I am afraid my time here is over. See thread under when does the pain end. <P>My H is such an a**. <P>I will be thinking of you and praying for you. Hang in there.
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Cybil, <P>This may be the hardest time yet, harder even than discovery. Everytime we think we cant take anymore, we do.<P>Be the lil engine that could!! "I think I can, I think I can!!"<P>We are rooting for you, bigtime!!!<P>Trueheart
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+<BR>Thanks MnM and Trueheart for the encouraging words. I did it,I made it through another day. Yeah me!! My WH called last night and I answered he wanted to talk to the kids so i immediately got one of them on the phone they each talked about 2 min. and then my D handed me the phone and said that WH wanted to speak to me he said hello and ask how I was I said fine but I really couldn't talk as I was getting dinner for the kids I was very short and in a businesslike tone. I didn't even cry when I hung up. He was actually nice just like my counselor said he would be. This has got to be making him think because I'm the one who is always crying and asking him to come home. Either way I see Plan B as a win/win situation for me. Thanks everyone for the support!<BR>Cybil
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