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Hi All,<P>I need to write a letter or two to my H. BUT, I do not plan on sending it to him. They are letters to simply help me get things off my chest and hopefully outta my head.<P>I have a problem expressing anger, I turn it inward and get depressed. My hopes are to find emotional closure to all my pent up anger, and I hope these letters will help me.<P>So, I'm wondering if you guys mind me posting them here.<P>Lemme know ...<P>Jo<P>------------------<BR>"Remain flexible like a reed, as opposed to an oak which can snap in the wind"
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R -<P>IMO that would be a good thing. If you wish to discuss it here. I for one would not mind, you have to reach into your heart and say what you need to say. We are dealing with ultimate hurts here. I just came across the "how it made me crumble inside". I've read the books, and tried to express my pain so that others understand.<P>If you need help with the anger, I don't think anyone would mind. MO I would not mind. Hope this helps.<P>hugs, aftershock<P>(p.s. I know you are dealing with some major pain, my prayers are for you.)
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I am posting my first time on this website. In my opinion, everyone has to deal with things in their own time in their own way. I would be glad to read your posts if it will help you.
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Bring it on.... ![[Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]](http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/images/icons/smile.gif) <P>But then let us know also if you want feedback or not.... ![[Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]](http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/images/icons/wink.gif) <p>[This message has been edited by Faith1 (edited August 03, 2001).]
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I will post them, but I'm a bit apprehensive about how angry I sound. That, and I have some cursin and swearin to remove. ![[Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]](http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/images/icons/shocked.gif) <P>So let me make them "MB Ready" so as not to offend anyone, and I'll post them in a bit.<P>Thank you for letting me do this.<P>Jo
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The only other thought is to keep in mind that - you never know - your H or someone you know may see whatever is here - so make sure you don't mind if that happens......
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Thanks Faith, good point.<P>If H, or anyone else for that matter, came here and read, I would be okay with it. <P>Jo
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Resilient,<P>I too have often felt the need to unleash some of my anger. A few things that have helped me to unload LOTS of my anger toward my H. have been to go back and reread some of my posts on this forum-then, while all the old and horrible memories are still fresh in my mind, I go to the "draft" section in my email account and I just let it all out. I then add to it a little bit every day-when I'm satisfied with the results, I print it out and save it, that way I remember all the terrible events I have already vented on when it is time to do it again!<P>Good luck and bring on the vent!
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