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Well guys, My husband last night finally admitted that he had a problem ans told me (for the first time) that he was going to do anything it takes to get help for himself and us. He said "I want us to be a family" <P> We were planning on trying to get pregnant. Itold him that I didn't want a child if he was going to put himself first. When the babyt needs diapers he will not be out spending money.. <P>So, I hope this is the beginnig to the start of the solution to our problem. I know we have a way to go but we love each other and I hope I have made myself clear to him that I can't take anymore lying.. <P>I will keep writing here. It is really good to talk about things and get my feelings off my chest to people who actually care about my marriage.. <BR>Again thanks... <P>C
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Dear Cofwill,<P>Glad to hear. Wishing you and your H well. Let us know how you are doing. <P>Take Care,<BR>L. <BR>
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Hi Cofwill,<P>Just wanted to add another opinion here, and yes, people out here care about building marriages for the better! Regarding your husband's willingness to lie to you about so many things, I hope he realizes how much he has/is hurting you. Is there an objective way that you could explain to him all the hurt his behavior has caused you and is causing you? Wow.<P>Here are some helpful articles that may be of help in expressing yourself. God bless you and hang in there, okay!?<P><A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/graphic/mbi3900_honesty.html" TARGET=_blank>Policy of Radical Honesty </A><P><A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/graphic/mbi3801_honesty.html" TARGET=_blank>Emotional Honesty</A><P><A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/graphic/mbi3802_honesty.html" TARGET=_blank>Historical Honesty</A><P><A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/graphic/mbi3803_honesty.html" TARGET=_blank>Current Honesty</A><P><A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/graphic/mbi3804_honesty.html" TARGET=_blank>Future Honesty</A><p>[This message has been edited by BINthereDUNthat (edited August 07, 2001).]
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<BLOCKQUOTE><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by BINthereDUNthat:<BR><B>Hi Cofwill,<P>Just wanted to add another opinion here, and yes, people out here care about building marriages for the better! Regarding your husband's willingness to lie to you about so many things, I hope he realizes how much he has/is hurting you. Is there an objective way that you could explain to him all the hurt his behavior has caused you and is causing you? Wow.<P>Here are some helpful articles that may be of help in expressing yourself. God bless you and hang in there, okay!?<P><A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/graphic/mbi3900_honesty.html" TARGET=_blank>Policy of Radical Honesty </A><P><A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/graphic/mbi3801_honesty.html" TARGET=_blank>Emotional Honesty</A><P><A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/graphic/mbi3802_honesty.html" TARGET=_blank>Historical Honesty</A><P><A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/graphic/mbi3803_honesty.html" TARGET=_blank>Current Honesty</A><P><A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/graphic/mbi3804_honesty.html" TARGET=_blank>Future Honesty</A><P>[This message has been edited by BINthereDUNthat (edited August 07, 2001).]</B><HR></BLOCKQUOTE><P>thanks.. I actually have printed all those articles out for him. In times past I have asked him this "Do you understand how much hurt I feel" He says yes.ag out an apology out of him and reguardless of his 'understanding' he manages to do it all over again. <P>I'm still trying!!!<BR>C
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