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W has never shown me her statements, now I now why. Reason: W's bank statements are being sent to the OM house in care of him. ![[Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]](http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/images/icons/frown.gif) <P>I don't know how to handle this or even if I should attempt speaking to W about this. Does this indicate her/their plan to wait me out? I feWith our 20th wedding aniver. in 2 weeks this REALLY STINGS!!!!!!!<P>I have asked W to just show me a statement in the past to prove I'am wrong about OM depositing money into her account. Just to put my mind at ease. She looks right at me and tells me nobody is putting money into that account but her.<P>
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Ive been there about 8 weeks ago . want to know everything but find out nothing . It sucks . Just be cool you may never know alot of it . get used to that fact. Dont beat yourself up trying to get the information.
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Positive,<P>my $0.03 worth is to try (and I know this is hard) not to focus on the bank statements, only focus on the elements of your plan A.<P>If the OM has deposited $0.01 or $10,000 what does it change for you? nothing. Plan A is aimed at you working on being the nicest person you can while your W is in the fog. Don't back off. If I were you, I'd be buying some flowers or a bottle of wine or taking my W dancing. Do something which undermines the money and posts lots of units in her Love Bank.<P>The OM can't Plan A - only you can, so find anyway you can to crap on his patch :-)<P>
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