both of our computers had been infected with the sircam worm virus from opening an email attatchment.<BR>what this virus does is ti will leech itself to random files on your hard drive and send them to people in your address books or in your cookies, without your knowledge.<BR>so between the 2 of us that worm got sent to about 150 people. ( sorry Cali) including the XOW. (she emailed and asked why we were emailing her)<BR>we found a site that contained tools to get rid of it so we no longer have it.<BR>about 2 weeks ago OW Once again trying to contact and resume relationship with H via Yahoo messenger..... he caught on rather quickly and was totally discusted that she ONCE AGAIN wouldnt leave us alone. so when he told her that he knew who she really was.( she was posing to be someone else) She has the audacity to claim to be her H! trying to find out if theyre still in contact ( can we all say DUH?) So H told HER that if she tried to contact either one of us again he would file harassment charges (applause) <BR>my point in writing this part is to point out the fact that everytime she tries to contact eitherone of us ( she likes to post here to me) H hates her a little bit more. He told me that he should have realized then what a psychopath she was, <BR>anyhow so we infected the XOW's puter with this worm virus..... after we found the tools to get rid of it we sent the addy to everyone in our mailing lists. I asked H if he sent it to OW ( this i would not feel as a breech of no contact cause the intital email was sent by accident)<BR>His reply was something to the extent of Let her figure out how to get rid of it herself.....( undoubtedly i was pleased by this response) however seeing as i know she doesnt know much about puters <B>I</B> myself emailed her and explained that the email was sent by accident and sent her instructions on how to get rid of it. I choked down the gall rising in my throat that i was actually attempting to help this woman who certainly hasnt helped me. but anyhow I did help her.<P>I think this is a turning point for me when i can feel no more anger at XOW. all i feel now is pity. Shes very needy and will do anything to not feel that way.<BR>Her life is very depressing and emotionally its bringing her down. I think now i understand her a bit better....Her last email to me was to put it nicely, as much as you can yell at someone by typing
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and i figure that she hates me for interupting her temporary happiness..(EA with my H)<BR>her marriage has been on the rocks for a few years now that i know about and there seems to be no hope for them...they both had previous PA's that i know of i dont know how many though.... she even had the audacity to hint that me and her H were having an affair.(huh? shes kidding right?). .not that i think either of them really want to work on it. Pointless really if you dont want to help yourself...<P>So anyohw would you all help an OP get rid of a virus your WS accidently sent?<P> if anyone out hat has this bug to this address<BR>it will explain what the email looks like and how to get rid of it<BR> <A HREF="http://symantec.com/avcenter/vinfodb.html" TARGET=_blank>http://symantec.com/avcenter/vinfodb.html</A> <P>that is basically a list of all recent viruses<BR><p>[This message has been edited by TeeAreOhYouBeEL.Eee (edited August 08, 2001).]