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Im so confused
#937270 08/08/01 01:22 PM
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Whats going on now when wife stops over to see kids she huggs , kisses, and says I love You , She claims to be really concerned about my well being ?<BR> The 2 teenage kids laid into her about o/m and his intentions . she didnt realize that these kids do have a mind. she couldnt answer much but cryed alot. Is it possible that she might be heading towards bottom? I offered for her to go to councler to find out what she is in for with the kids , myself , herself . no answer .I would like to be able to get the right words out at times like these, something that would make a difference . But I dont want to rush right in and scare her off. any suggestion?
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#937271 08/08/01 01:36 PM
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CB:<P>Keep up the Plan A, first of all. Remorse, guilt, shame and other emotions will come over your WS. Hopefully, those feelings, plus your providing increasing emotional need support via Plan A will jar her out of the fog.<P>Godspeed,<BR>STL
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#937272 08/09/01 09:11 AM
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Im trying to wright a good plan a letter to wife . what should it say . lately i cant put 1 sentence together .<BR> Anybody have somrthing that worked for them?

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