Hello,<P>D Day was 13 April. My H said that the affair had lasted 2 months and had finished at the end of March. I later found out, in May, that they were still in contact over the telephone and he admitted that he is having trouble getting over OW because he fell in love with her. Meanwhile, he continues to make plans for our new house which we moved into in March (Yes, half way through the affair). The other day he was talking about long term imorovements which we could make to the house, but three days earlier, he was talking about leaving. Someone one here in one of my other posts said he was probably still in the fog. I only found this sight last week and have really only started plan A from a few days ago. It looks as though prior to that I was committing loads of LBs [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com](which is probably why he nearly left the other day. Anyway, I'm determined to give plan A my best shot, but in other people's experiences, how long does the WS stay "in a fog" after the affair? [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]