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you here?<P>------------------<BR>Semper,<P>Husband2You<BR>*****<BR>Don't make me promises <BR>Baby you never did know how to keep them well <BR>I've had the rest of you <BR>Now I want the best of you <BR>It's time for show and tell<P>'All or Nothing' O-Town
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having a moment.. here.. just need to talk... for a few okay..
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I love busted pretty bad I think..<P>I called at 9p and she needed me to call back at 930p<P>I call back at 930p and get disconnects.. over and over again.. someone would answer..then the phone would drop..<p>[This message has been edited by Husband2you (edited August 17, 2001).]
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so I dialed 911 and sent the police out there.. <P>That was not a good thing to do..<P>WHile I was waiting for the police to get there.. I called her back and the OM said she was asleep.. started attacking me verbally and slandering her about how he had her open like 7-11.. it was horrible..<p>[This message has been edited by Husband2you (edited August 17, 2001).]
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I hung up on him because I was tired of listening to the crap he was trying to kill me with..
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you still there? u ok? there's more.... I'm here
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she called about 5 min later and I told her what I did.. by calling the police to go out and check on her safety.. She got very angry, told me that I shouldn't have. I told her that I was worried about her safety.. and then he pulled the crap he did. I really didn't need to hear the things that he said. The were horrible. <p>[This message has been edited by Husband2you (edited August 17, 2001).]
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h2y? I'm here. u ok?<p>[This message has been edited by Faith1 (edited August 17, 2001).]
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yes.. I didn't mean to over react.. but I was so scared for that split second.. <P>She called back after the police got there and said that everything was okay... and we talked.. the OM denyed saying anything to me at all.. she ended up believing me.. in the end.. but man.. this whole thing is so hard to do..
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I guess I'm looking for validation of what I did.. althought it was wrong, in her eyes.. also. Did I do the wrong thing, being that the police have been out there 2 times in the last 3 weeks because of him?
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She tells me she can take care of herself.. and I'm sure she can.. how can I explain it to her that I only care about her.. yes as a wife.. but my God.. there are 5 boys that would miss her if he ever did anything to her..<P>Am I wrong? should I just let her be?
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forgive me for not knowing all the details.. I've kept up with you lately - but not always... has he done things to hurt her before?<P>
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YES! he spent 11 months in jail for assaulting her..
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oh God. I thought that's what I remember reading.<P>Listen, you are doing your best to take care of the person you love more than anything in the world. Don't feel bad about calling the police tonight, ok? <P>I'm sending more.. just wanted to post this.<P>I'm praying for you too, ok? ever since you called my name 30 minutes ago.
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H2Y, you back in Dallas or still in Houston?
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H2y, I think you are going to have to let this go. You can't always be her protector - much like a father cannot always protect his children when they go out into the world. I think that all you can do is let go.... she's an adult. Let her take care of herself, and if she fails - and she may ![[Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]](http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/images/icons/frown.gif) , it WON'T be your fault.<P>sending through... more coming
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I don't mean let her go like divorce... I mean let her go from your responsibility. plan B, or Plan A and let her take care of herself. She doesn't think she is in trouble. She may have to find this out on her own, and I don't think there's ANYTHING you can do to prevent that. She doesn't want to admit it right now.<P>
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