My goodness....I'd almost forgotten what it was like to have some real fun.<BR>My trip to St. Louis started out great!<BR>Stayed in a very nice hotel room.....had a nice dinner out with freinds....all in all....Tuesday night was great.<P>BUT.....come 4:30 Wednsday morning when my WH started calling me on my cell phone.....that's when everything started going wrong. By 3 that afternoon WH had called me 19 times.<BR>Guess I'm not allowed to have a life now. He doesn't like seeing me move on.<P>Just this morning he's called 2 times already.<BR>He has the girls this weekend and told me not to make any plans for Saturday....wonder what's up with that?<P>I'm not sure what to make of it.....just when I start getting a life and start having fun he starts opening his eyes......not even sure I even want him back now.

Hi MP! Glad to hear you had such a wonderful time!! Don't let your WH burst your bubble!<P>As you imagined, your WH probably figured out that he doesn't really, um, LIKE the idea of you actually having a life and moving on? Hmmm... It's sort of a theme with WS's around here.<P>My H did the same thing. Heaven forbid, I should go out and have fun! He called me like 5 times one night cuz' he didn't know where I was (he knew I was "out" having a good time) and he was "worried". Oh my. That shocked me alright...<P>don't think too much about Saturday. It could be ANYTHING and you don't want to get your hopes up.<P>Although, it does SOUND promising to me. <P>I know what you mean about not wanting him back right now. I reached that point a while back, and after that, I just totally let go. I don't care anymore at this point what he does, I don't love my husband anymore. There will always be a special place in my heart for the man I married, but not for this creep.<P>I still leave the door open for now that my H will stop waffling (I still believe in marriage vows and would like my kids to have a 2-parent household), but if he doesn't, he doesn't, and I accept that...<P>Good luck.<BR>HbH

Hey Misssssy -- it sounds encouraging to me (if getting him back is still your goal...??)<P>I was wondering how you handled the 19 phone calls? Did you answer them? Did he have a reason for calling?<P>If you wanted to, you could probably get the Saturday plans out of him. But maybe it will be a nice surprise.<P>hmmmmm...he's acting awful jealous. Wonder what he'd think about you having lots of plans this weekend? Maybe ask what he meant by Saturday? Saturday afternoon? Saturday nite? Cuz...you know....there's some other things I might be doing....let me know how much time to plan....<P><BR>LOLOLOL