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I have read several people saying that MB suggests that the BS move, if possible. Does that mean move far away, or just change dwelling places (i.e. apt., house)?<P>Thanks,<BR>TIG
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As I recall, it suggests that the recovering couple move, if need be, to avoid any continued contact (purposeful or accidental) with the OP.
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In a word: Yes. <P>The Harley's say to another state, if necessary, to avoid ANY contact.<P>
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I think there are two different MB situations involving a move:<P>1 - During a plan B, the BS and WS have to separate. If the WS is not cooperating, it might require the BS moving. That would just be a change in dwelling place, not necessarily far away.<P>2 - In recovery where both BS and WS are cooperating, a move far away could help maintain "no contact" with the OP during recovery.<P>- Tom
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just know that moving doesn't always help. if your ws has not broken contact before the move, IME is a waste. my STBX never broke contact, in fact I believe the whole move was a set up. I am now in worse shape fincinally then I would have been if we had seperaed a yr earlier.<P>but I would think moving in most cases will help<P>my ws just really doesn't like me, could never forgive me for leaving him open to an A plus the OW would just not give up, their love is/was so complete nothing else mattered, not children, family, friends, work even what was everyone thought rock soild spiritul blieves.
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