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Re: If your L U R K I N G . . . Its OKAY... Please read!
#943305 07/11/02 08:40 PM
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Macyme,
Good for you for un-lurking yourself. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

You've got a situation there, but nothing that you can't put some work into, become stronger, and possibly make a new and better marriage!!!

You say you've been lurking... I don't know how much, but reading is a GREAT first step!!! Reading the Basic COncepts on the MB web-site, getting your hands on the books: His Needs, Her Needs, and Surviving an Affair. Reading on this forum - other people's stories - and the great wisdom and perspectives being shared here... AND posting your questions and being open-minded to listen to the offerings given you here.

Please copy and paste this post into a new post of your own, so that it can get more attention. There are others here that have been in very similar situations as yours, and they will have a better chance of seeing you and helping if you post yourself, k? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />

Next step? Get your hands on those books, and end all contact with the OM and stick to it. GIve your marriage a chance, because it REALLY can be rebuilt into something wonderful - something you or your H will never question again.

There's some good links to peruse in my signature line as well.

Welcome to MB, although I'm sorry your situation brings you here. This is the best place to be.
Re: If your L U R K I N G . . . Its OKAY... Please read!
#943306 10/15/02 08:10 PM
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Just wanted to bump this one up. H2Y put it all in words that I cannot redo. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

Karen
Re: If your L U R K I N G . . . Its OKAY... Please read!
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Karen,

Glad you found this and bumped it up. I have been thinking about this when I see how high the guest count is...... <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

H2Y.....if you are out there checking up on us..... I owe you a phone call, ok?!?!?!? Please let us know how you are doing.

Hugz to all.
L.
Re: If your L U R K I N G . . . Its OKAY... Please read!
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Lurking, who me <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" />

Well, actually from time to time..., so here it is Hello! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" />
Re: If your L U R K I N G . . . Its OKAY... Please read!
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Lurking? Me? muhhhhhaaahahhaha <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />
Re: If your L U R K I N G . . . Its OKAY... Please read!
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dear H2U
I do lurking daily and I find my sanity back many
times I squeeze the lurking in between my work
"fooling the boss"
but I love your posting - keep it up
will always lurk.
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