How are you dealing! DoNOT mean to bug you. Just worried! Are you doing okay? Well, I guess if we were we wouldn't be here.

Hi Cherise,<P>I am still among the land of the surviving. As usual, never a dull moment around here. Boxes are still packed. H is trying to work on staying here. He is in the middle of leaving one job and already starting another. Some emergency financial issues (his) came up, I had to help on. Now he is seeing and admitting it is his selfish side that is causing him trouble. WS & OW supposedly had a big blow up. Now H says he wants his family to be happy. H says the only way he can be turly happy is with his family but right now he still does not feel happy. <P>It is all still too new. Too much stuff on his plate. He will have to sort through all this. I am taking a back seat to most of the stuff. He is directing. Kind of hard, but there are small talks going on. <P>I won't get my hopes up too high, need to concentrate of surviving. You never know when these OW's will try to slither (sp?) back in. <P>For now, I am more settled. Been watching the board and doing stuff at home. Went to spend my 'first' day at the spa with my cousin. She had a facial and I had a 'mud wrap'. It was fun. Work gave me a gift certificate and we split it (I did not want to go alone). It was nice. Both my cousin & I felt like fish out of water. Don't know how to act when someone is doing something nice for us. hey, we can try to get used to it, right? Learning slowly. ....<P><BR>Thanks for asking. How have you been doing?<P>L. <BR>

<BLOCKQUOTE><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by Orchid:<BR><B><BR>I won't get my hopes up too high, need to concentrate of surviving. You never know when these OW's will try to slither (sp?) back in. <P>For now, I am more settled. Been watching the board and doing stuff at home. </B><HR></BLOCKQUOTE><P><BR>Hey, Orchid - I've been worried about you, too! Glad to hear you went and did something FOR YOU!<P>Baby steps, baby steps.....<BR> <P>Lupo<BR>