Well, so far so good I guess. Trying my best to find some trust...he did tell me to take the cordless phone with me last night when he asked me to go to the store so that I wouldn't think he was calling her??....I guess I should feel better but not sure..<BR>And more truth about the OW came out last night and night before...she sent their go between to him asking if he was transferring or quitting...he laughed at them....the dummies said all this to him in front of management who is watching for this type of stuff from her...they want to get her on harassment at this time since he told them everything...<BR>And also one of the OW's so called best friends most of her life just started working there and told him last night how the OW destroys men's lives ever since her ex husband started beating her...that it's a pattern with her...she starts up with a guy for 6 months then drops him and moves to another and another...been going on over 6 years now...<BR>Ouch...I had pondered if that was what she was up to...since she won't move out of the ex's house....if this was a psychological revenge type thing....yep....she's really wacko apparently....but won't do the right thing to fix it....leave the ex and see a psychiatrist!!!...instead she is just wrecking guys' lives in retaliation I guess for what she won't leave now....which is really sad....<BR>And now my H has to deal with the absolute truth about her....and yet I'm still afraid he'll fall for it again....but am doing a bit better....guess only time can really make me feel better....and also moving to a new place...he won't give up his job though...she's the one that's going to end up going apparently...she's too crazy to realize that they'll fire her for harassment...oh well....<BR>Just gotta take this day by day and pray for the best...he is making more progress now....but I know that withdrawl is coming....not unless he was already in it due to all of their fighting over these last 2 months....<BR>Thanks to all that responded last time....s....I know I have to try to trust him....and I am trying even though it's hard....I can see that he is trying....and his old personality is coming back....<BR>I guess there is hope for this M after all...still have lingering effects to deal with...but they can be dealt with....