Hi to everyone, if you are familar with my last post,you know about the pic. I have discovered and the fact that my WH is supposed to be leaving, but has not as of yet. Can anyone tell me why they think he has not left yet, I know its not because of money,because he is staying with his mom. Could he be is scared?? I don't think our marrriage has a chance unless he leaves for a while, does anyone agree with that or do you think I am wrong to feel this way?? It is so difficult when you have so many ? in your head that you can't answer, I can't believe my life has come to this, anyone else feel this way?? As much as he has hurt me and betrayed me I still can't imagine my left without him, Am I wrong?? why is this so diffiicult??? Sally

The feelings you have are quite normal under the circumstances. You need some space, and rightfully so. I guess I don't understand what you mean by "he is leaving". If he is staying with his mother, does this give you the space you need? <P>Right now, you aren't going to know what to think. Let the smoke settle a bit, and then try to think. It's wise not to make any decisions when you feel like you do. When the time is right, you will know what to do.<P>Hang in there, keep coming here, vent all you need to! <P>Blessings,<BR>B<BR>

Hi Sad Sally,<BR>I think some days, it just isn't worth it...then I re-evaluate and realize that we have to keep trying...You know Sally, God wants us to do what he has outlined for us...we must stay and fight....let God work his miracles for us....if it is his will that this relationship survive...in his time....the turning point will come...this is the only way I can think we have a chance when it comes to my situation...sometimes, I have to remind myself that God's time is not my time and that maybe my H has to sink even further in the sin/filth before God can work miracles....<BR>I know I'm not answering your questions as to why your H hasn't left yet....this is confusing...I was trying to recall your post when you first found the pics...you guys had a big blowup if I recall correctly....did he say then or did you request then that he leave???<P>------------------<BR>always-faith4us

Hi Faith4us, bound for better days, Thanks for your replys Yes we did have a big blow up and we both decided that it would be best for him to leave for a while, he was going to stay at his mom's, but he hasn't not left yet, and I don't want to ask him again. part of me wants him to leave and part of me dosen't. Yes I believe what you say in God's time if it is meant to be, Thanks Sally