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I was just curious if anyone has identified the OP's spouse on these boards? I have often wondered when I read a betrayed wife's post if she might be married to the OM, but I do not know the state that they are in.<P>S&C

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Sad I have thought the samething. My single daughter is the on with a MM. She told me that someone sent his wife the book SAA. Our Daughter knows about this sight but I doube that she would ever venture here as she and MM have such a "unique" thing going. anyway, I always hoped that the Wife would come here and get help if indead she really did recieve the book as our Daughter claims.<P>------------------<BR>Marry

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yes...OW's H is <I> alittlelost </I>. He has even posted to me...but played me for a fool...he used me against her and my H.<P>Cali<P>------------------<BR><I>Live Impeccably In Your Word.<BR>Don't Take Anything Personally.<BR>Make No Assumptions.<BR>Do Your Best Always. </I>

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I've thought about registering as a new name and asking if anybody is from OM's state. I don't know why I don't want to do it as my real username.<P>S&C<p>[This message has been edited by sadandconfused (edited September 05, 2001).]

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UMMM not the OW's H but definately the OW.<BR>in accordance to H, OW's H only uses puter for porn (shrugs)<BR>but the zOW likes to post to me here so i dont bother posting much anymore.<BR>Id rather OW not know how we are doing and feeling etc. So consider me a full time lurker<BR>take care all<BR>

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In my case, the OW is divorced. However, she has posted on here before. She will probably not post again as she thinks this led to my exWS breaking up with her once..... I am quite sure that she is lurking to check up on me. I'm sure it kills her not to be able to "talk" back....


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