Hello all...<BR>Been Plan B'ing the last 2 months after WS had an EA and possible PA with someone unknown and we separated. Long story short, I got a new job, relocated, wife joined me after 6 mos, went on a 2 wk business trip, friend who recruited me and helped me get the job 'looked after' her while I was gone with my knowledge. <P>I have access to WS's email, and check once in awhile to see if I can find out who the person is. I had a suspicion early on about my 'friend' and confronted him about it, and although he never denied it, he tried to be friendly and I was sort of convinced it wasn't him. Well, in an email today she replied to another friend of hers saying that her friend from this area visited this past weekend, and I know he visited that same state this weekend, no coincidence at all. Anyway, after being really upset for about 1 minute, I am fine again. The thing is, I don't know what I should do with this information. Should I confront him? or her? Also, I am living in his apt while he is on a 6 mo business trip and I am taking care of her dog for another 2 mos before I send her back to WS. Even before I confirmed this today, I was leaning toward getting this over with and filing myself just so I can move on. Plan B was an easy option because I had no desire to contact the WS anyway, but I don't think my heart is really in it. She doesn't want to file, and keeps giving me reasons to put it off, for what I really don't know. The only thing I wish I had was concrete proof like pictures so if she happened to hire an attorney I could keep all my assets. Anyway, what do you guys think? I don't want her back anymore, but should I confront either of them for closure? I know he called her on our shared cell phones, and I have the phone records, so I could tell him I know because of those. I just can't believe you really can't trust anyone these days.
