As it went down yesterday, the short version.<P>12:00p W had big fight with OM at the bank over me being in her life still<P>01:00p W went to the courthouse and picked up Eviction forms to evict OM<P>03:00p W sent me an email asking me if she could come to Houston this weekend (this is a first)<P>05:00p W told me to call at 630p<P>06:30p W told me fire department was at her house checking for CO2, she was feeling dizzy and faint<P>07:00p W went with SIL to fabric store<P>09:30p W called and told me she was going to the Emergency Room because of her dizziness and faintness. Told me she would call collect from hospital and let me know what is the matter with her.. medically. Told me OM won't let her come to Houston. Told me she would tell me later about big fight and eviction<P>12:30a I tried calling her house. NO answer. No SIL. No Stepchildren. No OM. No Wife.<P>01:00a Tried calling the only local hospital in town in Dallas wife lives and no check in.. no check out. Checked all the hospitals in a 15 mile radius for same info. No Wife.<P>01:30a I tried calling her house. NO answer. No SIL. No Stepchildren. No OM. No Wife.<P>02:00a Called MIL to see if she knew anything. MIL said she would try and locate her and if not would call me in the morning.<P>09:00a MIL getting same responses from phone and hospitals<P>10:00a I tried calling her house. NO answer. No SIL. No Stepchildren. No OM. No Wife.<P>09:30p was the last night anyone heard anything from her.<P>Theorizing.. <P>1. This is a big fabricated sick lie. Really sick lie.<BR>2. Hospitals aren't telling us the info we need.. (Can they do this).<BR>3. Everyone is dead due to CO2 poisoning.<BR>4. OM has turned the phones off again.<BR>5. OM freaked out about eviction and killed everyone.<BR>6. OM took W and SC somewhere. SIL is at her STBXH house.<BR>7. This is a big fabricated sick lie. Really sick lie. (listed twice.. because this is probably what it is.)<P>Well I dont have to tell you what I'm thinking.. I'm just sitting here going crazy.<P>Anyhow.. I feel funny asking for prayers if its 1 and 7. <P>LBing will be when I call the police out there at noon. Should I or shouldn't I.<P>------------------<BR>Semper Fi,<P><B>Husband2You</B><BR>«¤»¥«¤»§«¤»¥«¤»§«¤»¥«¤»§«¤»¥«¤»§«¤»¥«¤»§«¤»¥«¤»<BR><I>···In the valley of the blind the one eye'd man is King···</I><P>· E-mail: <B> husband2you@petroleum.org </B> · ICQ: <B><A HREF="http://wwp.icq.com/1206499" TARGET=_blank>1206499</A></B> · Formerly: <B>E m p t y</B> ·

I would call the police. And at the same time, continue to call their house. <P>I don't blame you at all for being worried... now anyone who reads this thread will be too. So you know we'll be thinking of you.<P>I wish I could think of something whimsically encouraging to tell you right now, but I can't. I'm worried too. Please keep us posted.<P>Karen<BR>

H2Y. I can understand why you would be going crazy. This is horrible. Have you talked to MIL yet this morning? Do you think W is capable of lieing to this extend? If so this is so sad. Think positive maybe she really did go to the hospital they got in relly late (you know emergency rooms ) and theyare all sleeping in and the phones ringer is off. Before you all police please check in with MIL again. I'll be praying for your W and your situation. Hang in there. Please keep us posted. <BR>cybil

Here mother is not getting any answer.. at least... logically my SIL would answer a phone call from her own mother.. <P>I don't know..<P>------------------<BR>Semper Fi,<P><B>Husband2You</B><BR>«¤»¥«¤»§«¤»¥«¤»§«¤»¥«¤»§«¤»¥«¤»§«¤»¥«¤»§«¤»¥«¤»<BR><I>···In the valley of the blind the one eye'd man is King···</I><P>· E-mail: <B> husband2you@petroleum.org </B> · ICQ: <B><A HREF="http://wwp.icq.com/1206499" TARGET=_blank>1206499</A></B> · Formerly: <B>E m p t y</B> ·

MIL and I have been calling since 9:00a. MIL is local there.. so I may ask if she will call the police.. but I know.. that is putting her in the middle.. but this is crazy.. Especially if OM is playing his games again. <P>And everyone wonders why I want to physically hurt this guy, when he does things like this.. Isn't it obvious? Or am I just a basket case?

Ring the police....if it's a LB too bad...she either set you up, then it's her own fault, or there is something seriously wrong!!!

H2Y,<P>A suggestion is that perhaps your W went to an Emergency Care Center (Doc in the Box). Maybe try calling the ones local to her area?<P>Jo

Jo.. Aftercare.. checked them.. there's only one. They wouldn't tell me anything.. wouldn't listen to me. Does this make sense..? I told them my wife went to either an ER or aftercare.. haven't heard from her all night .. and she can't give me a yes or no in regards to whether she was there or not..

Call the Police Kev. Even if a LBer. Assume something bad has happened, what if someone is still alive and in need of help. You don't need that on your mind as well.<P> jd

How can showing concern over what seems to be a serious situation be a LB? Keep doing whatever you need to do to find out. I'm sorry she put you in this situation; W must know how frightening this would be for you.<BR> {{{{{{{{H2Y}}}}}}}<BR>Keep us informed!

Well I got some good news out of this.. My MIL just told me that my W is trying to get the OM to leave and has been for a month. So the eviction forms weren't a lie as far as MIL and I can tell. This is great news.. unless OM found papers and lost it.<P>Coming from my background.. I know that when a woman leaves an abusive man.. that is when she will seriously get hurt.. her mother knows that also.. being the victim of Domestic Violence for many many years. And we talked about it. Her mother's very upset... and if this is a lie.. she said she's going to be very angry.. <P>MIL and I decided if we didn't hear anything by noon, she told me to call the police.<P>So one more hour.. <P>Another thought that I just had.. maybe she evicted him.. had him removed and then she went somewhere safe.. okay.. now.. I'm stretching it. What the mind does to the soul.. <P>------------------<BR>Semper Fi,<P><B>Husband2You</B><BR>«¤»¥«¤»§«¤»¥«¤»§«¤»¥«¤»§«¤»¥«¤»§«¤»¥«¤»§«¤»¥«¤»<BR><I>···In the valley of the blind the one eye'd man is King···</I><P>· E-mail: <B> husband2you@petroleum.org </B> · ICQ: <B><A HREF="http://wwp.icq.com/1206499" TARGET=_blank>1206499</A></B> · Formerly: <B>E m p t y</B> ·

Hi H2Y,<P>Can you MIL drive by and see if anyone is hone? I know you are worried. <P>L.

Orchid.. she's 30 to 45 min away..<P>JD.. I didn't think about that.. look where my thoughts are.. <P>Okay.. I'm calling<P>------------------<BR>Semper Fi,<P><B>Husband2You</B><BR>«¤»¥«¤»§«¤»¥«¤»§«¤»¥«¤»§«¤»¥«¤»§«¤»¥«¤»§«¤»¥«¤»<BR><I>···In the valley of the blind the one eye'd man is King···</I><P>· E-mail: <B> husband2you@petroleum.org </B> · ICQ: <B><A HREF="http://wwp.icq.com/1206499" TARGET=_blank>1206499</A></B> · Formerly: <B>E m p t y</B> ·

Before calling the police.. I tried one other thing.. I called her exhusband to see if maybe she was staying there for safety.. <P>EXH told me he talked to her at 9:00p and she said she was going to the hospital.. 10:30p last night he called to talk to his oldest son. My W was there and had gone to the ER but decided not to stay. EXH said that they were all suppose to be there all day today..<P>He is going to call and drive by there for me.

Do they have caller id and know when it is you calling? Maybe you could get private caller and then they would not know you are calling. I mean OM could be the one holding everyone back from taking your calls? Hm......<P><BR>Make sure you let you MIL know the status. OK?<BR>L.<BR><p>[This message has been edited by Orchid (edited September 08, 2001).]

Yes they have caller ID. But to not take calls from her mother?? Talk about a D***. <P>I'm beginning to think that this is what it is. Not that I feel anymore at ease.. yet.<P>Thank all of you once again.. for sitting her with me through my problems once again.

she's on the phone

ok...... standing by if you need it....<P>L.

Well, what can I say..<P>All of this energy wasted..<P>She did try and go to the hospital last night.. but the OM found the Eviction papers and wouldn't take her to the hospital until they talked. So he just drove around for an hour.. while she sat there in the car wanting to go to the hospital. She didn't want him there at the hospital and wouldn't leave her there alone. So she told him to take her home and when they got home they fought and argued for hours about him leaving.<P>She wanted to call and he wouldn't let her so she just went to bed. OM turned the phones off, and kept her up most of the night. She was obliging him.. so that he didn't get angry.. (whatever that means... I guess you can figure that one out though).. she got up this morning to more arguing and fighting about him having to go. She said she didn't sleep good and that she still felt dizzy and faint.<P>She cleaned house this morning and the phone has been off the whole time.. and he wouldn't let her call. Finally the OM went to work and she called me.<P>She wasn't very happy with me for calling her ex and her mother in law.. until I explained that I thought the CO2 had gotten them.<P>She said I'm a big girl, I'm fine, I can handle this alone, but once he's out of the house, I won't be able to pay the bills without support.<P>She said that she's not ready for me to move into the house yet because my SIL is there until December. She says she is pretty much making him feel that there is going to be a relationship after she kicks him out.. she's telling him she kicking him out because of the stress. But she told me that once he's out its over. But she doens't want to let him know that until she's safe. The OM was complaining about having to pay for the baby sitter for the baby. She said that the OM lost 85.00 dollars this week somewhere.. and this morning she is missing 20.00 dollars.<P>I'm going to couch fish the money up she needs and send it to her for the 70.00 dollar fee for the eviction.<P>Now.. I want to apologize for getting all of you involved.. and dragging you into this. I had reason to worry.. I'm just sorry that it ended up being the games of the OM, that dragged all of you into.. through me.<P>I feel ashamed now.. and I'm really tired. I'm sorry if I scared or bothered any of you.<P>------------------<BR>Semper Fi,<P><B>Husband2You</B><BR>«¤»¥«¤»§«¤»¥«¤»§«¤»¥«¤»§«¤»¥«¤»§«¤»¥«¤»§«¤»¥«¤»<BR><I>···In the valley of the blind the one eye'd man is King···</I><P>· E-mail: <B> husband2you@petroleum.org </B> · ICQ: <B><A HREF="http://wwp.icq.com/1206499" TARGET=_blank>1206499</A></B> · Formerly: <B>E m p t y</B> ·

No Worries, H2Y. Don't feel you need to apologize. We want to be there to help. I'm glad everything is okay. <P>God Bless,<BR>Jo