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I am about to place an order for one or two of Dr. Harleys books. Can someone tell me which book/s they considered the most informative? <P> Any advice helpful...<P> jd
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His needs her needs<BR>surviving an affair'<BR>Love Busters<P> ![[Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]](http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/images/icons/smile.gif)
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Hey JD,<BR>I was going to say it but Faith beat me to it.
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Surviving an Affair, definately.<P>His Needs Her Needs was good, but it didn't fit my situation, it basically dealt with the most typical cases and the most typical needs that men/women have. My H's needs are characterized mostly as typical "female" needs. My needs were also typical female needs, so someday, if my H ever reads it, I think it will really benefit him... I tried to twist Harley's suggestions around so that "husband" replaced "wife", but it just didn't quite fit...<P>Those are the only two books I have of his.<P>HbH
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jd - definitely SAA. It's one of the few books, if not the only one, that deals with affairs in progress. All the others focus on affairs already over.<P>What other books have you read/consulted?<P>I highly recommend "Private Lies" by Pittman. It's a much more "academic" read than SAA, and thus, is harder to digest, but it's very thought provoking and useful as a reference.<P>Go to a bookstore and just browse. You may find something good.<P>WAT
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Hey Jd,<BR>How are you doing today?<BR>SEM and I read the books together. I read, he listens, then we share commits on how we feel. <BR>Good way to spend time together in a postive matter. Sherry
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jdmac:<P>I have nearly the whole library. I'd suggest the following:<P><A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/graphic/mbi6070_sa.html" TARGET=_blank>Surviving an Affair</A><BR><A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/graphic/mbi6015_fall.html" TARGET=_blank>Fall in Love, Stay in Love</A><P>These two are the most recent, and they pretty much contain all the material of his other books.<P>
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Hi, Thanks Everyone,<P> I have just placed the order for SAA. Will probably order more later.<P> WAT,<P> Unfortunatly this is going to be the first book I read. I have read MUCH information over the net but not an actual book. I will check on Private Lies, thanks.<P> KS,<P> I am doing pretty good so far today. As you know I found out of WS secret A #2. Assuming she is being honest at last, I feel VERY good about our chances to recover, finally.<P> Now, you have given me GREAT advice as to getting my W to read this book with me. I will read it for her, out loud. She hates to read so this could work for us as well.<P> Thanks (D)Faith1, HBH, you all are the best.<P> jd<P>
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Thanks K,<P> I really want to learn how to Fall In Love and Stay in Love. And want that for my W as well.<P> jd
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