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I just wanted to say thanks for those that have answered my 2 posts... I guess I just needed a break so decided to post again... right now I'm packing my stuff and putting it all into one room... I keep finding things that reminds me of how happy we once were and all the things we were going to do...Why can't he get past OUR A's..I have moved on from the OM and KNOW I want this marriage, he has not had contact with his OW--only an old interenet friend now..he still has this thing about being single again..he went out with the guys the other night and came home cause it wasn't the 'same'(the same meaning about his friends i'm taking it since the OM was his BF...) last night he came home from a study group and was upset.. I asked him what was wrong and he said what was going on with us.. he later grabbed me with tears in his eyes and apologized for the weekend..He has been on and off with us and we are both on emotional rollercoasters.. at least he showed me last night that this is affecting him--why do guys have to hide their emotions most of the time? I asked him this morning if we could spend some time together tonight before I left for home tomorrow... do u think that was wrong and will make it harder? I guess what I'm hoping and praying is that this time away will make him so to say wake up and see that I have already forgiven him.. that he could forgive me and we could build together slowly what we wanted before.... ugggghhh i just want to scream! anyway..thanks for listening to me ramble yet again...
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I know this is a difficult time...<BR>The best thing you can do is to be true to your user name and remain patient...<BR>Further, take time for yourself...learn all you can about yourself and about relationships...<P>Fix what needs to be fixing...Admit what needs to be admitted...most of all to yourself...there is many times something deep inside that we keep there...something unsaid...that holds us back from happiness...the trick is putting it out there and 'fixing' it.<P>As you change your actions and reactions you will see a different result in your life...<P>Keep us updated,<BR>Cali<P>------------------<BR><I>Live Impeccably In Your Word.<BR>Don't Take Anything Personally.<BR>Make No Assumptions.<BR>Do Your Best Always. </I>
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